Hello NoFap family, I'm on day 17 and having issues with talking to women in a romantic way. It seems obvious when women are interested but I'm not sure how to make it go further. One example of a girl who was clearly interested at a tea place I went too. She worked there and was taking my order but all the while staring into my eyes, giggling, flirty stuff. The only bright side to this situation is that I'm becoming more aware of girls interests which was a problem for me in the past but I don't know how to take it further. I went to sit down and read after my order and she came with my drink, smiling and saying "Enjoy the read" I smiled back and said "Thanks". What more could or should I have done? I thought about talking to her before I left but over analyzed my interests and that she was busy working or that I wasn't in a good mood so I didn't do it. Looking for an answer to this back and forth madness I have in my head. Thanks
Thanks man, that helped a lot. There's a girl who works at a cafe I go to that is pretty fun to talk to so I'll go there tomorrow and if she's working I'll say what I've wanted to say "Hey, I think you're a cutie. Want to go for a drink some time?" It's time to stop being pretentious and playing aloof. If I can't rely on my attitude to indicate my interests then I will do it boldly through talking to her.
