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Treating Foot Fetishism - A thread to help those, who want to get rid of their foot fetish

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Deleted Account, Jan 14, 2024.

  1. This thread should be a collection of your and my tips and methods to get rid of a foot fetish (or at least to try to treat a foot fetish).

    I do not care that I am kink shaming. I'm a guy with that fetish, and appreciating this fetish has only made my life worse. Why? Because it gives me the impression that I do not have to constantly better myself in general, as "I'm perfect the way I am".

    First, we will rename it. Instead of "Foot Fetish", or even worse "Foot Kink", we will call it Foot Sexualization Disorder (short: FSD).

    Like it or not, it is a disorder. Feet are not intrinsically sexual. The genital parts are. You could also make an argument for boobs and ass (I've read, that we first were only attracted to asses, but when we started to walk due to evolution, boobs also grew bigger as we weren't starring at the ass that often).

    So now, how could we cure it?

    Let's look at "the dangers" of FSD, or: Why guys with FSD are seen as creeps?

    Of course, not all of guys with FSD are creeps. But it's a fact that it's become a problem. Female influencers start to edit out or blur their feet in the posted images or films. Women get random DMs on Reddit asking about feet pics. Women dating someone have their feet touched without consent. The creep's argument is: "It's just for fun". But for people with FSD, a foot is the equivalent of a boob. Replace all of that with "boob" and you'll see how creepy this is. I mean, here is an whole thread discussing this: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/ya8k2f/fucking_feet_guys/?rdt=58734

    So it seems, that people with FSD are on average more confident on doing perverted comments or doing perverted actions. Why so? It's a mix of being desperate, being triggered by feet IRL and thinking one could fool the other person (as "it's just feet").

    So if we open up about our foot fetish (if we're not one of those creeps), not only is it seen as something gross in general, but also we're gonna be seen as a creep, it's a potential red flag. This person even left her boyfriend because of his foot fetish: https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyC...left_my_boyfriend_over_his_foot_fetish_and_i/

    So the conclusion is: It's not worth having a foot fetish.

    Now about feet being gross:

    1. They smell. You can deny it, force it to like it, but they just fucking smell.
    2. They have tons of bacteria between the toes and under the toenails. I mean, when I cut my toenails, there comes out a vomit like smell out of them.
    3. Possible toe-nail fungus
    4. They look all the same. There is no difference between a male foot and a female foot (expect the average size). But there is already a difference between a male and female chest, and a male and female ass (due to bigger hips).

    I hope you will know further methods, tips how to beat this. Keep in mind that I am someone who had this fetish since puberty, way before porn. So it's not porn-induced.
     
  2. Gid

    Gid Fapstronaut

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    Man, I think it's admirable that your opening up about foot-fetish, or however you wanna call it. You do sound kinda angry at yourself though. Just so you know, I'm not angry or disgusted by you liking feet. I don't think you should treat it as a disorder that you can cure, also I wouldn't call it a disorder at all. I think that you can find relative peace with the fact that you feel arousal from feet, when you realize that it won't go away just because some part of you wants it to go away. There is a whole other (instinctive?) part of you that loves it. It's basically your sexuality which you want to have go away. Now I don't think you really want that, would you really want no sexuality. I wouldn't pick that. Maybe this fetish will never go away, but your strong enough to accept that I'm sure.
    Now how can you find peace with liking feet? I'm wondering. Maybe: acceptance of your nature, acceptance of the truth, and the acceptance of suffering through out life. There won't be a finite end point where you go, ''ah I no longer like feet (because I followed some kind of treatmentplan)'' That would be madness I think.
    Let me know what you think.
    Your fine buddy! Cheers!
     
  3. Biophage

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    Men have been attracted to female feet all throughout history. It was actually more normal and common 200 years ago than it is today. Most guys are attracted to the entire female body, not just butts and boobs. There's nothing wrong with it and it's not really that weird. I really don't consider liking a body part a 'kink'.

    You should also stop reading those feminist subreddits. The women there are not normal and half of the stories are made up.
     

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