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Total nonsense

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by risedaily, Dec 24, 2019.

  1. risedaily

    risedaily Fapstronaut

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    Just by having no pmo streak of 90 days many people on this forums call it success. Totally bullshit. You have been addicted to pmo for 8+ years and you think just abstaining for 3 months is a jackpot. Its time to stop behaving like kids and stop posting messages about our relapses, its disgusting. If not abstaining for a full year how can you feel proud of yourself by just quitting for a month. And people congratulate you so u feel you have done something big and later you go relapse. Even if it means giving up internet up and your job you have to do it because obviously you are dead or not count among men anymore when you masturbate watching the girl of your dream or being fucked by another guy.
     
  2. CTRL + DEL

    CTRL + DEL Fapstronaut

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    I think success is a subjective thing.

    What's it to you if people have different standards than you do?

    There will always be someone whose 100% will be your 75%. Learn to let them live with that. So long as people give self-improvement their all, I don't think we should expect anything more out of them.

    Damn straight it is.
    8 years of daily relapses takes its toll on any human. To bounce back from rock bottom with 90 days in your tow is something everyone should be proud of.

    Every single minute away from PMO is a victory.

    Who are you to say otherwise?

    If you're fed of of seeing these messages, leave the forum. This isn't your backyard. It's a forum for us to help each other grow. If you don't take others' behaviors into consideration, you are free to leave.

    I assure you, nobody will beg you to come running back.

    So what?
    They bounce back even after that. And even if they don't, nothing can ever take those 90 days away from them.

    Not you. Not me. Nobody. Their victories remain sealed in the folds of time.

    "Girl of your dream"?

    I don't think any girl engaging in polygamy would be a girl of anyone's dream, regardless of how good she may look. Even pornstars admit they are different persons on set.


    Now that you've gone and had your little tantrum, why don't you tell us- what's hurting you?
     
  3. i_have_pizza

    i_have_pizza Fapstronaut

    I don't have a girl of my dream, only guys, lol, it's will never work. But I agree that one year is better time to be proud of after 1 year of addiction after 15 years of PMO

    Can't agree. Some people want this kind of relationship and don't wants monogamy. Can't say is it because of the porn or not. Porn starts also sometime have a family. Rocco Siffredi for example, they even have kids.
     
  4. Di.Do.555

    Di.Do.555 Fapstronaut

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    It is success even if it is two days.
    You have been m twice or more a day and then you go a month or so without m. Isn't it sweet success?
    Actually i will go one further here : relapsing isn't failure.
    Btwn you are success there is a set amount of relapses.
    Nothing is lost.
     

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