To have victory masturbation session or not?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by bartledoo, Jul 12, 2015.

  1. bartledoo

    bartledoo Fapstronaut

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    So in 36 hours its gonna be 3 months. If you wanna see my progress journal:http://www.nofap.com/forum/index.ph...-1-month-headfirst-moderate-experience.35622/

    So I want to celebrate by having 3 porn-less faps, back to back. I'm gonna use extra virgin olive oil on the last one, don't worry I know about friction burn.

    My plan is to drain all sexual pressure, and then I'm gonna let it build up again for a couple months. Because I like the high sex drive feeling, it makes you want to accomplish stuff.

    For you guys that lift, this is like cheat meals. Cheat fap.

    What do you guys think of this? I don't have a women yet, so I can't get a handy or anything like that. I'm working on it.
     
  2. ThatOneGuy56

    ThatOneGuy56 Fapstronaut

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    Your gonna feel like crap after that but its your call man I wouldn't do it.
     
  3. MightyKC

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    I'm not going there myself. Seems kinda needy for me personally
     
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  4. bartledoo

    bartledoo Fapstronaut

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    But you can only go so far with abstinence, before you go insane. I've reached insanity.

    And blowing a load isn't like smoking a cigarette, its not something you should be completely quiting.

    I was reading the NoFap FAQ, and they said there isn't much wrong with plain jacking off without porn aid. http://www.nofap.com/about/

    I'm gonna feel like crap, just like how cheat meals make you feel. But thats the point, you do it just to help you with abstinence.
     
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  5. ThatOneGuy56

    ThatOneGuy56 Fapstronaut

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    I guess but if I was at that point I'd rather have sex with my girlfriend, not jerk off.
     
  6. SkyDoge

    SkyDoge Fapstronaut

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    If you really thought it was okay to celebrate your "victory" this way, why would you be asking people's opinion on here?

    This makes just as much sense as an alcoholic celebrating 90 days of sobriety by drinking a whole bottle of vodka. Gee what could possibly go wrong?

    Go ask a girl out on a date.
     
  7. bartledoo

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    Wait I should mention I was on hard mode.
     
  8. MightyKC

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    It's up to you, brother. I've been on hard mode too. But I'm not going for barely crossing the finish line. I'm going for record-setting dominance.
     
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  9. ThatOneGuy56

    ThatOneGuy56 Fapstronaut

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    So what's your point? Its good that you made it 90 days but to lose it all is just plain stupid.
     
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  10. MightyKC

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    And you are correct, the science behind rebooting does in fact say that the porn is the problem
     
  11. MightyKC

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    Honestly, I thought about it. I pictured doing the same thing. And it was just sorta sad.
     
  12. bartledoo

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    That option isn't available to me. I'm working on it.

    Dude if I was celebrating that way, then I'd find a video of my favourite porn star and starting jacking to her.
     
  13. ThatOneGuy56

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    Then keep working on it man you can get something there's plenty of people out there.
     
  14. SkyDoge

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    Well you'll be conjuring up those images in your head during your fapfest anyway. Very small difference
     
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  15. MightyKC

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    If you're still thinking that way, I wouldn't crank one out
     
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  16. bartledoo

    bartledoo Fapstronaut

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    Ok its good I made this thread, you guys convinced me I'm not ready yet. Gonna try until the end of July before fapfest.
     
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  17. DannyCool

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    lol - this whole thing seems like a wind up but maybe it is not. When I was at my 90 I considered going back to the old ways but them realised there was no other way to do it as in the statement made above. You have to leave the pub and the friendship to the suffering friends in the pub and find a much happier life.
     
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  18. MightyKC

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    Good on ya's - Good on all of ya's :)
     
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  19. Mr_Annon

    Mr_Annon Fapstronaut

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    Don't do it brother you will certainly regret it with the stories I have hear don't just carry on and cum when needed don't waste that energy you have stored for the girl you are waiting for and they would seem no point if you just going to carry on fapping.
     
  20. Icyweb

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    The solution to that is to change how you view doing nofap. If you look at it as not being able to masturbate, you'll end up relapsing. Probably really hard after a while. If you look at it as living a life where you don't masturbate because you don't have to, you can make it your whole life without a problem. It's all about deciding to not want it anymore. It takes a while for your brain to catch up with that decision, but it will.
    Reward yourself with something else. Try going to a movie or something else you enjoy, but don't do often.
    90 days is a great accomplishment, and we would hate to see you throw it away. But in, the end it's your choice. If you want to go back to being alone in your room, with your hands covered in your own slime, you can choose that. I'm rooting for you to keep on going though. I made it about 5-8 months once, and then I gave in just once, and got stuck in a vicious cycle. I don't want that for anyone else. It may seem like you can control it, but that's when it controls you the most.