I'm a addicted to fapping and can't get rid of it. When i joined this community i was hopeful about my addiction but as the time passed i started fapping again. 2-3 times a day. When i joined, I wanted to get rid of it and was trying something. But now I am at the worst stage. It's ruining my life. At this time a small part of my soul wants to be free from this addiction but the other huge portion wants to enjoy the fapping. Desire to fap is becoming stronger inside me and i can't control my self. I get excited just by seeing a beautiful girl and i start thinking about sex with her. The worst thing is that whenever i see any girl in one of our relatives i also start thinking about xxx with her. I want to get rid of it but don't know how. I have tried everything that i could. But now i am really really tired of this thing. I want someone who can really help me with this. I cannot share this with anyone else so i am telling to the community. Please help me , i want someone who can help me to get rid of it and with him i can share my all the problems i face related to this. I would be very very very thankful to him for saving my half ruined life. Please help
Have you ever thought about seeking help from a counselor or therapist Harsh Jani? You could also try looking for an accountability partner here, but for now I can direct you to this youtube channel, watch EVERY SINGLE ONE of these videos, starting with the first upload to the most recent one ideally in that order, on your own time. Also I would look for an accountability partner perhaps, someone who wants to help you, and if you like, feel free to send me PM's, I will help as much as I can. https://www.youtube.com/user/SacredSexualityVlog
If it helps, and believe me it works wonders, try bookmarking the nofap emergency link so that whenever your tempted it will be there. Here's the link: http://emergency.nofap.com/
Thanks for the reply @purity. No i didn't try to get help from any counselor or therapist. I don't find my self comfortable for that. After posting the thread one of the members from NoFap PM me and suggested some ways to get rid of fapping. He is also ready to help me whenever i need any kind of help related to it. So i think i have got one partner here. I would like to thank you for offering the help. I will contact you , if i need any kind of help.
You my friend, like all of us just need to be a little bit stronger, make sure that you're the only one in control over your brain, find something else to keep yourself busy, a video game even, just don't sit around on your own doing nothing, try to be around people most of the time, go out more.. you can do this if you want to. YOU WILL if you want to. good luck.
Reduce the frequency systematically. It is extremely important that you belive in yourself. There are only 2 ways of looking at this: You pretend OR You quit masturbation and porn Edit: I mean you either pretend to quit or you quit. There is no reason to feel demoralized because there is no threshold, once you no longer masturbate or watch porn you no longer masturbate or watch porn. For example, I no longer masturbate or watch porn, therefore I no longer masturbate or watch porn. Achievement Unlocked. Now I can move on to doing productive things that will benefit me and, implicitly, the whole cosmos.
