Thoughts on being a loner

I share similar problems. I hope you find some results in nofap and the forum.

 

Listen to the language you're using about yourself. "Weak," "outcast," "diseased." Would you ever speak that way about your worst enemy? You're not weak, outcast, or diseased. That's called "negative self-talk." I had a problem with negative self-talk, too. I wrote down six good things I wanted to reinforce about myself and posted it on the mirror. I try and read it to myself every day. Number one on that list is "You are intelligent." For you, I would suggest "You are lovable." Try it. For real.

It's okay to not have sex for long periods. In fact, if you're not married you shouldn't be having sex. Sex is useful for two things: a beautiful expression of love between two spouses and, of course, for creating new people. You'll find someone but first you need to clean up a bit.

Also, the marijuana use has to stop. There's no two ways about it. This is a dangerous drug, despite what people on the internet say. It's bad for your mind and your body and it's only making you more isolated. It also relaxes your sense of morality and decreases your inhibitions making you more likely to M. I'm not just speaking out of ignorance here. I used marijuana for about 7 years. Here's a great article on the dangers of marijuana: https://www.dailysignal.com/2022/10...ms-users-mentally-physically-and-financially/ .

Finally, I recommend therapy. It can be very helpful for people dealing with your problems. There's online therapy if you don't feel comfortable meeting someone face-to-face.

Best of luck to you. God bless.

 

Loneliness is a kind of awareness of oneself as an unwanted, abandoned person. But for what reasons does a person who lives in the company of other people feel lonely and abandoned? And is this true?