Thoughts on a passive-agressive person?

My thing is... I've always been more focused on personality first (not common for most guys, I realized). For that reason, I've always avoided passive-aggressiveness. Do you see anything in her (other than beauty which eventually fades) that will be in balance with, or even outweigh, her passive-aggressive nature?

That's just an honest question. In no way am I meaning to be critical.

 

I've dealt with a few passive-aggressive people though I didn't date them. The number one thing to remember is to be assertive. In order to be the most effective with them, I've had it told to me to have a "spider-silk" attitude: soft, yet strong. You don't want to set them off with harsh words, but rather appeal to their more soft, gentle side.

 

Back in the day such girls were just called crazy.

My advice - crazy girls are for fun, not for keeps.

 

Stay away

 

Sign of immaturity , common streak in lotsa people , when they do not know how to communicate their feelings across and need to resort to PA methods.

If I were talking to her about it , I would ask if she feels misunderstood at times , or afraid of backlash after speaking up , if she feels afraid of rejection or not okay with being okay.

 

Stay Well away! If she is openly like this, i can only imagine it will be much worse in a private intimate relationship.

My ex was pretty passive aggressive. It was absolute torture. Never gave an opinion, just jibes at me when it goes wrong. Awful experience, don't go there