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Thoughts about displacement

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Theguywiththething, Sep 5, 2017.

  1. Theguywiththething

    Theguywiththething Fapstronaut

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    Hey people, I'm new. I used to be addicted to soda, specifically cola. About Four months ago, my doctor issued me an ultimatum: eat healthier or go on medication.

    I successfully weaned myself off of it with a three prong strategy: a caffeine pill which became more and more infrequent, a decreasing amount of sugar until it almost all came from fruit (which admittedly, i still eat a ton of) and most importantly, a water bottle that i clip to my belt so i have no excuse when I'm thirsty.

    And it worked.

    So my problem is that pmo is built into my routine and you know, cravings. I've been thinking about displacing pmo with the gym, but that's not nearly as convenient. Has anyone had any similar success with displacement? What did you sub pmo out for?
     
  2. Dr Doom

    Dr Doom Fapstronaut

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    Hi man,

    Yes indeed it's good strategy. What I would suggest is to sub pmo with activities that involves your brain when you have urges for example, writing (novel), playing chess, hanging out with friends or with activities that burns energy when you feel energized like soccer, football or any activity that you like.

    Good luck.
     
  3. kentclark

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    New healthy habits is the way to go. Choose whatever interests you and if you're still searching for that hobby, I'd recommend working out right away. It's not only a great habit but it's also a wise lifestyle choice. Join a gym, join a running club (great way to meet people) or get on a bike or a rower.

    Good luck brother!
     
  4. Gotham Outlaw

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    Reading works well for me. I have to focus all my energy on the book, and fapping doesn't even cross my mind.
     
  5. Theguywiththething

    Theguywiththething Fapstronaut

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    Reading, working out, writing, and strategy games like chess and magic are all things i love to do.

    I'm also really capable wordsmith, not to toot my own horn. But over the last year my drive has diminished.

    When i feel urges, its usually in the early morning or late at night. I'm usually on my computer. I'm just bored and stressed out. It's just so convenient

    Okay, so here i vow. When i feel the urge, I'll start writing instead. If that doesn't work, I'll try chess or a pokemon battle simulator. And as a last resort, mtgo
     
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