This is me. Nice to meet you

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by mercuryninja, Mar 21, 2014.

  1. mercuryninja

    mercuryninja Fapstronaut

    I had discovered NoFap a few months back, thought it was nice, and just went on with life and trying to do it on my own. That went less than perfectly. Now I will give this a try.

    I'm 23. I'm a virgin and would like to stay that way until I am married. I am a religious person, and so most of my motivation comes from that realm.

    I have a girlfriend that I have been dating for a little over a year now, but we are in a long distance relationship, two separate countries. I also want to have the self control to know that I am honoring and respecting her properly. I kinda feel like if I don't have the self control of myself now with something as simple as porn and masturbation, that could cause future problems if things work out for us.

    As I said, I am a religious person, so I think of it as being a bit of a moral issue for myself. I know that is not the standard constitutional view of NoFap, but I am cool with that, and I also know that I can respect the opinions/thoughts of others.

    My goal is to break the habit. No fapping, no porn, no edging. For now, I'm setting my goal for a month of freedom and will evaluate my journey once there.

    Moving on to the journal section. Talk to you all later!
     
  2. AnythingIsPossible

    AnythingIsPossible Fapstronaut

    Hey there :)

    Welcome to the community, it's a fine place and you'll find a lot of support on your way to achieving your goals. It's great to have a clear idea of your motivation for doing this, religion and morality are a good place to start, but also consider some of the other, positive effects NoFap will have on your life. Things like your mood, confidence and energy levels :)

    Good luck and get yourself a counter in your sig, it really helps :)