Thinking about ex girlfriend and automatic little ejaculation.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by A K Chang, Dec 2, 2017.

  1. A K Chang

    A K Chang Fapstronaut

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    Thinking about ex girlfriend and automatic little ejaculation is considered as relapse?
     
  2. Bravehart

    Bravehart Fapstronaut

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    Yes. It is considered as relapsing.

    This is called fantasizing, and this is the worst of all the enemies of a Fapstronaut. You've gotta stop fantasizing. Try to keep yourself busy. Meditate, and try to keep your mind calm and clear.

    Reset your counter and start again. This time, with more determination. Best of luck.
     
  3. Chris3000

    Chris3000 Fapstronaut

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    It would depend on your personal goals
     
  4. How many days did you manage?
     
  5. A K Chang

    A K Chang Fapstronaut

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    I have completed 1 month. Without PMO
     
  6. Let’s rock

    Let’s rock Fapstronaut

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    I wouldn’t class that as a relapse. Thinking about your ex is healthy fantasising as she is a real person you’ve been with not a pixel on a screen. Plus as long as you didn’t touch yourself then it’s not your fault you ejaculated
     
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  7. No, it is not a relapse. It's not an unnatural superstimulus like porn is. Fantasizing is normal. We've been doing it for eons and it has not been a problem. Besides it is not really something you can control that easy. And because it is out of your control, unless you're some kind of zen master, it's not really your fault. That being said, if you have some type of OCD then it can escalate to unhealthy amounts. But generally if you are mentally healthy person it's fine.
     
  8. Steve Sancteria

    Steve Sancteria Fapstronaut

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    drop it like it's hot? xD
     
  9. Kikobraz

    Kikobraz Fapstronaut

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    Not a relapse
     
  10. seaguy44

    seaguy44 Moderator Assistant

    No, that would be like billions of men thinking of girlfriends. Total relapse? No. Very normal.

    Automatic little ejaculation sounds like spontaneous emission. Very normal
    And more common than you think.
     
  11. A K Chang

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