The Way of the Superior Man - [Book Recommendation]

I've just started to read this book and find it poke right to the pain/weak points.
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The Way of the Superior Man-David Deida
TABLE OF CONTENTS
Part One: A Man’s Way
1 Stop Hoping for a Completion of Anything in Life
2 Live With an Open Heart Even If It Hurts
3 Live As If Your Father Were Dead
4 Know Your Real Edge and Don’t Fake It
5 Always Hold To Your Deepest Realization
6 Never Change Your Mind Just to Please a Woman
7 Your Purpose Must Come Before Your Relationship
8 Lean Just Beyond Your Edge
9 Do It for Love
10 Enjoy Your Friends’ Criticism
11 If You Don’t Know Your Purpose, Discover It, Now
12 Be Willing To Change Everything in Your Life
13 Don’t Use Your Family As an Excuse
14 Don’t Get Lost in Tasks and Duties
15 Stop Hoping for Your Woman to Get Easier

Part Two: Dealing with Women
16 Women Are Not Liars
17 Praise Her
18 Tolerating Her Leads to Resenting Her
19 Don’t Analyze Your Woman
20 Don’t Suggest That a Woman Fix Her Own Emotional Problem
21 Stay With Her Intensity––To a Point
22 Don’t Force the Feminine to Make Decisions

Part Three: Working with Polarity and Energy
23 Your Attraction to the Feminine Is Inevitable
24 Choose a Woman Who Is Your Complementary Opposite
25 Know What Is Important in Your Woman
26 You Will Often Want More Than One Woman
27 Young Women Offer You a Special Energy
28 Each Woman Has a “Temperature” That Can Heal or Irritate You

Part Four: What Women Really Want
29 Choose a Woman Who Chooses You
30 What She Wants Is Not What She Says
31 Her Complaint Is Content-Free
32 She Doesn’t Really Want to Be Number One
33 Your Excellent Track Record Is Meaningless to Her
34 She Wants to Relax in the Demonstration of Your Direction

Part Five: Your Dark Side
35 You Are Always Searching for Freedom
36 Own Your Darkest Desires
37 She Wants the “Killer” in You
38 She Needs Your Consciousness to Match Her Energy

Part Six: Feminine Attractiveness
39 The Feminine is Abundant
40 Allow Older Women Their Magic
41 Turn Your Lust Into Gifts
42 Never Allow Your Desire to Become Suppressed or Depolarized
43 Use Her Attractiveness as a Slingshot Through Appearance

Part Seven: Body Practices
44 Ejaculation Should Be Converted or Consciously Chosen
45 Breathe Down the Front
46 Ejaculate Up the Spine

Part Eight: Men’s and Women’s Yoga of Intimacy
47 Take into Account the Primary Asymmetry
48 You Are Responsible for the Growth in Intimacy
49 Insist on Practice and Growth
50 Restore Your Purpose in Solitude and with Other Men
51 Practice Dissolving

 

I read several books from the pickup community, they are all about tricks, strategy, logistics,
but this is the book that help develop the much surpressed masculine energy within us.

 

Thanks for the recommendation!
I acquired The Power of Now will start reading it soon.

I am currently 90% thru the book Models by Mark Manson.
It is one of the more significant book I have read on social dynamics with women. It has some tips I have never seen before, and it's mostly about communicating with your true vulnerable being.

I never did many cold approaches before, the last one I did was several months ago.
but I did 2 yesterday, and 1 on the day before, where I already know she is single and willing to meet again.
Not exactly smooth, as I now reviewed what I could have done better, but I just don't feel the fear anymore since the books seemed to unlock some part of me.
I also came to realize I already have enough of theory in me now, time to synthesize what I have learnt. So I will hit on every girl I find cute!
Merry Christmas everyone!