The Parable of the Doughnuts (porn addiction)

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Sanc-Hos, Mar 20, 2017.

  1. Sanc-Hos

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    Here's something I read on a great book called the principle of purity by Randy Alcorn. It's giving me a lot of resources to keep morally clean and I'd like to share it with you guys. This is the doughnut parable, enjoy it:

    "Imagine someone whose weakness is eating doughnuts. His doctor says, “No more doughnuts.” He vows to God, “No more doughnuts.” He promises his family, “No more doughnuts.” He calls the church and gets on the prayer chain. He even goes to a doughnut deliverance ministry to have the demon of doughnut desire cast out of him.

    "Here’s a guy who means business, right?

    "But then what does he do? Well, if he’s like a lot of us, he goes right on reading about doughnuts, listening to doughnut music, and watching television programs about making doughnuts. He spends his time with other doughnut lovers talking about doughnuts, joking about doughnuts at the office, where he often glances at the doughnut calendars on the wall. He looks through the newspaper for doughnut coupons and subscribes to Doughnut Desires, with its glossy, color photos.

    "It’s not long before he’s driving to work the long way that “just happens” to go by a doughnut shop. He rolls down the window and inhales. Pretty soon he’s buying the morning paper from the rack right outside the doughnut shop. He’s lingering just long enough to check out doughnuts through the window.

    "Then he remembers he has to make a phone call, and hey, what do you know, the doughnut shop has a pay phone. And since he’s there anyway, why not have a cup of coffee?

    "Now, remember, this man has no intention of breaking his vow and eating doughnuts. But the totally predictable and inevitable result is—what? That he will give in and eat doughnuts!

    "And can’t you just hear his sad lament? “What went wrong? I prayed! I asked others to pray. I asked God for deliverance. Why try? I give up. You do your best and look what happens!” "

    "The First and Most Basic Strategy"

    "If we learn nothing else from the parable of the doughnuts, we should learn that sincere intentions, and even prayers, are not enough. To have victory over temptation we must have clear goals and sound strategies, and we must diligently carry them out.

    "What’s our first line of defense against impurity?

    " “Flee from sexual immorality” (1 Corinthians 6:18)."
     
  2. Deadlihood

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    Great post. Flee from that damned donut immorality!
     
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  3. That's a great scripture. Good advice and an excellent illustration.
     
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    That must be our first reaction when temptation comes... Flee! Don't stay to resist temptation just flee!
     
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    Agree! This Scripture is very simple, we don't need to be theologians to understand it. "Flee!" "don't stay to watch and smell the doughnuts"

    Thank you for reading!
     
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  6. Joshua The Christian

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    Amen. It's a daily walk... really truthfully for us it's a minuet by minuet walk lol
     
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    You are right friend! Step by step, being aware of our final destination
     
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