The nonfantasy side of many fetishes. Are we a little crazy...?

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by hombrenuevo, Oct 5, 2022.

  1. hombrenuevo

    hombrenuevo Fapstronaut

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    Possible sensitive content. And apologies for my mediocre English.

    Sex can be clean, nice, and beautiful. It is a natural thing, even wonderful.
    If two people hadn't had sex, none of us would be here...
    Well, I don't know if any of you were born in a test tube :).

    But if we start to think coldly, many fetishes, which we have (or suffer) are based on a way of reasoning that diverges from reality. We enter a territory halfway between fantasy and nonsense.

    I don't criticize or judge anyone for his/her erotic fetishes, because I have too.
    I'm not better than you.

    To make this reflection more concrete...
    For example, we sometimes have fetishes for fluids that aren't really enjoyable, and could even transmit a virus. Personally, I take good care of myself, have a good diet and take a lot of antioxidants. I have very healthy semen. But when I tried it out of curiosity, it just made me gag.

    Some also have fetishes for very masculine men who dominate them. By definition, a really masculine, nice, great man would not want to humiliate you or anyone else, except perhaps as an agreed game. And if he really wants to do that, it's probably because he's not a great man, he's mentally deranged. I mean, you'd really be admiring a deranged person.

    The sad trend of hypnosis videos on feminization is like the digitization of madness. It can happen that a man is born with a hormonal disorder and feels naturally feminine. But the goal of these videos is to induce or exacerbate to absurd levels a feminization that previously didn't exist. Not even a real woman would behave in such a ridiculous way as those videos describe. Furthermore, if you met the people who make such videos, you would realize that they are not wise saying wise things. They are deranged beings, bastards, or unscrupulous opportunists to make money.

    Orgies... a more common fantasy than we admit. I'm not saying that it's not possible to organize an orgy and have a good time. But, in porn movies it's super controlled on a medical, hygienic, and acting level. All the actors agree in advance and know what can be done and where the limits are. But in the real world, there would probably be some nasty participants, or an STD carrier. In addition, some person could end up feeling abused, psychologically bad.

    Also after having a quick first orgasm, all that little craziness fades away, and you usually don't feel like doing anything anymore, probably because it's really not appetizing. You would even want to walk away.

    Etc.

    A hug, and take care
     
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  2. loneloan

    loneloan Fapstronaut

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    I think some fetishes are ,almost,a kind of hive-mind Viral intelligence(viral sentience is being seriously studied),or a sort of "memetic thoughtform"; they have an almost onthological existence,deep within the mind of every born human. p0rn merely triggeres all of them and brings them out.
    It isnt avaible in spanish ,but I suggest reading a bit of Lloyd Demausse's Psycho-history books. he explains how history-long childhood mistreatment trauma caused most modern wars and atrocities large-scale.