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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Saiyan123, Apr 2, 2019.
Day 2 @Zendude @Saiyan123
Wow, I felt so good on reading that. I wonder how good @Bigftninja would feel on reading this ! He has found a great duel partner in you. I want to be like this brother. I feel inspired !! Thank you for this.
It is really crazy this Season. Now spurs are en'route to the finals. What a season it has been, full of surprises and new turn around's !
I didn't understand what you said here. Are you on Master Monk's Be The Elite my friend ?
Me too ! I have put watching new TV-Series on hold for a while, till I can take really good care of my urges; and staying up late, I think I should cut down on that too !!
Sure thing brother, and thanks for the advice though ! I will choose a day where I have a lot of things to do. Just one question, Should it be like a day, with work being done Physically, or Mentally; or does it even Matter ?
No brother. That's not what you are. See brother, When I was at the prime of my addiction, I was on hourly streaks. Then I managed to do 1-3 Day streaks. It was still hard for me back then. I am right now struggling to make it to 12-15 days. You just progress day by day brother, and if there is something I could tell you, it is that There are no Shortcuts. You have to keep working constantly and every single day counts. Don't get depressed, keep going with newer motivation, and learn what caused you to relapse. Learn from those mistakes brother. You can do this ! I know you can, we all know that. Keep going, Good Luck ! Also, thanks for the youtube link though brother. Just checked it out. It was really good.
I think it's @Zen Mode and not @Zendude .
Ready to duel
hmm got your point.
Pleased to help
Yes I am Also on Master Monks challenge.
@Bigftninja I am on day 3, where are you?
@Saiyan123 I'm available for a duel. Starting my second journey in NoFap.
Wow, a really good streak you've got going there. 28 Days is a very good number. Still, you can do a lot well, and so can everyone. Good luck to you on quitting this. If you like, you can duel against @EcoMunchies . Later, brother @Saiyan123 will make it official (If you want this duel), else you both can wait till he finds a duel partner for both of you. Good luck to you both.
count me in. can't wait to duel
why is my badge showing 360 days ? I updated it for yesterday
As I told recently, EVERYONE who needs help can ask me anything (i have 1 year+ experience, near to hit 2ys). I can suggest you write my thread about science oF NOFAP, I wrote just a few words to explain what is going on in your body and why you should stop trick your reward system fapping. Because when you fap the body think"oh nice, we are going very good in life. We share our gens every time we want and we are full of instant pleasure so we don t need more energy or more will power to go on with life". If she or you or any other fapstronaut need help I will reply ASAP!!!
As I replied at your sister if you need help or you need to know anything about your journey ask me, please. I will help you rebooting 100%, any doubt any question ask me and we gonna win(NOT THIS DUEL ONLY, BUT AGAINST PORN INDUSTRY)
Thanks, I'll keep this in mind! So happy to have strong and supporting guys in this duel and on this site in general
Day 3 checking in
Going good ? @Khannarj9
Were these phrases in bold all in your head? I'll tell you one thing @BeastBoyBalling. You don't know this girl and you don't know her past. Maybe she was hurt by some guys in the past. When I was raped
and I will tell the details of it bc this will show the shit I was and still am going through - so basically I decided to go for a walk in nature one evening and then I got attacked by some physically stronger guy, there were no ppl around (I was walking in the countryside), he was literally tearing my panties off and all I was thinking about was "do something not to get pregnant" so as I was not that physically strong and there was no help coming my mind suggested offering him a bj if he let me go afterwards, he said yes and he let me go afterwards. I was in risk doing that because he could have raped me afterwards or he could have beaten me up or whatever - I was not sure I would get released. The point of all this was that: I did not report this to the police because well I was calling myself a whore now and my body was dirty and I was a mess. Did not tell my bf then because he would have blamed me for going out alone in that place - this tells a lot about the kind of relationship I was in. Got an acute eating disorder afterwards and a pile of other probs.)
some time after I got into a situation where I was alone with a man in his house (he was my neighbour and I wanted him to sign some papers for some community cause so he invited me inside), nothing happened of course but I was trembling inside. Never took elevators for maybe two years or three because I might have ended up with some man alone there. So maybe next time you should communicate all your thoughts to that girl. Never judge them - just realise that you don't know what others may have gone through.
Day 18 ? ... I guess
Shit happened. I relapsed. I am not going to binge like last time. I looked at p-subs and then thought, looked at subs, why not p, and ended up doing that. Will check - in whenever possible. I have failed @Invincible Under The Sun and @Coolyorky . I will try again well next time.
I have to change myself. I ask others not to Reset, and then I do it myself. I am just worthless. I just trash-talk all the time. I have to change myself, or else, I won't be going anywhere with this. I just talk and don't act accordingly, and that, is a very bad thing to do.
I appreciate your prospective. I asked question " where you love to walk'' , it is not appropriate to make contact like. "Hey. We met earlier. I was wondering if you would like to go for a walk somewhere. I think we could chat for a little bit. Let me know what you think".
I will say something stupid. I just can't hold it. A lot of women fantasise about that. Yeah, I get it is not pleasant. All I am saying is make everything into a plus for you. Even it was awful it means you are attractive. As you said, I am empath I can go in your shoes easily. Cannot feel the same, but to the extant of logic. Forget about that rape thing, when you think about it, try to think that you are attractive. As a person who understands Law( I mean you here), you know that people in intstitutions have seen literally everything. They are home rapes everydays, psycho murders in cold blood, multiple homicides, gunshots, aggression. They have seen it all. Love yourself.
You talk. You are not saying to yourself the right things though. Be harsh on you. Be real. But provoke the right thoughts out. Right emotions. Say loud to you. I am a looser, that is why I am not gonna be anymore. Be harsh to the point you are ruthless. But do not get offended by yourself. Endure yourself. Say yourself, I am shit, and let yourself prove you wrong.