Talking to too many girls (flirting) nonsense

Hanging out with more than one girl or hanging out with a girl temporarily, even though she is not going to get married, is complete nonsense. Choose the right girl you will marry and never flirt with other girls again. The reason is obvious: dating makes people depressed, increases the likelihood of cheating, and makes prostitution seem normal. First of all, it is nonsense in itself. You look at the person you will not marry with a lustful eye and then you marry other people. I think it's a very disgusting situation. Childrens who watch videos on YouTube and say they should talk to girls, please do not reply. I wish you healthy and porn-free days.

 

I am unclear on what this post means. Is it trying to say that dating, in general, is waste of time or is wrong? Is it also trying to say that spending time with other women (even if it is strictly platonic) is wrong as well?

Help me understand more.

 

actually both. Sorry, I am getting help from a translate for English. Maybe it may not have been understood. You can't get to know a girl without flirting, but if the flirting is a one-night stand, I say it's wrong and a waste of time. I also say that if a girl is not going to be married , flirting with her is a waste of time.

 

Ok. I think I follow now... kind of.

I think it is OK to have women friends; otherwise, we'll just be missing out on experiences and opinions. I also think that dating/courtship is perfectly OK as well because it gives the couple a chance to learn more about each other and decide if they can work in a marriage (compatibility).

This is where I start getting into some antiquated notions that many may disagree with me on (and probably where I may not have in room to talk). I think sex should be within a marriage, and I don't think the getting with someone just for sex is a good idea. I am a firm believer in getting to know the individual first, and see if you share the same values. It takes time and effort, but it'll be worth it in the end. It also gives the couples time to learn about each other personalities; might never know if one could be abusive or manipulative.

 

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