Story of a loser

@ByeForever!!

You know what.

Everything in your life is about attitude. It does not depend where you start.

It does depend where you finish.

I always was a family black sheep. After my parents divorce, I was forced to visit a school I did not liked, then basically forced to go to college which was not fulfilling me...

In my family, when there was a success it was about whole family and when there was a failure it was about me.

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You are lucky. You have a family to live for.

Now, make things right.

Give it everything.

There are people who are saying that brain is a muscle. Go to the gym then. ;-)

Stop feeling sorry for yourself. Sorry does not make it better.

Get a plan and make it happen.

There is still time.

God Speed!

 

Sad to know your story and one thing for sure that I feel your pain. 60% of your story resembles with mine apart from drug addictions. Get the hell of here and be who you really wanna be. Good luck, mate.

 

In this world, there are winners, losers and those who have not yet learned how to win.

 

Try to eat as healthy as possible, do some exercise every week.
(no need to be hard on yourself, doing something small for a bit is already better)
And personally I'd advice you to take up mindfulness meditation and read the book: Radical Acceptance.
It helps a lot with accepting yourself for who you are and moving forward.
The book explains how to meditate etc.

 

Is it bad to use marihuana ? Just for relax

 

Hey bro, you're not a loser. We are all here to help each other out. It feels good being here and knowing i have all my brothers to talk to for support and motivation. We are here for you bro, and i dont know if anyone tells you this...but i love you bro. You are important....Dont ever forget that..

 

I wouldn't think of life along the lines of winners or losers. You're simply in a very low place and need to find your way out. As others have mentioned, your problems are deeper than pornography and weed. You use these things, like so many others, to mask deeper feelings that you are ashamed to encounter, unaware of, or dodging. I think the first thing you should realize is that you are not the only one who is living like this. On my many years of NoFap, I've seen countless cases where there is a lack of motivation along with the supplementation of pornography and weed to escape feelings of responsibility. Please read that statement again. I noticed from your post that you are an Indian living in the United States? If you are, please private message me since I have the same background and some insight into your issue.

 

Hi , I do masturbate once a day at an average , but I feel extremely week , concentration is completely lost, can it be sexual exhaustion, Because you guys are taking about 2-3 times a day

 

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hey bro , you are not a loser . It’s ok everyone make mistakes but the great thing is that you are not giving up Hands off man , you will definitely build a good future but please take care of your health dude , leave all pmo and ceggrattes

 

I'm a loser too. There is nothing in my life to be proud of. I've never done anything worth celebrating. Just a complete and utter loser who is too chicken shit to kill himself because I think it would hurt too much before I'm actually dead.

 

hey sir, please dont think so negative we all are humans we make mistakes its ok, we are made to live and enjoy. i too sometimes get depressed, but i got a lot help from my friends on this website . keep hope, work hard , make changes , things will get better

 

You are what you think about yourself. So stop saying you are a loser because you gonna be one. Start to feel about yourself that you are a winner and high achiever. Start now. Good luck.

 

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