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"Stop Jerking off!"

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by swervin_martini, Feb 2, 2014.

  1. Feb 2, 2014 #1
    swervin_martini

    swervin_martini Guest

    So I decided to join the club. First time I came across the 'NoFap' website was a few days ago. After reading through some of your postings|stories, I said 'Fuck it, let's do this.' So here I am... Playing with our dicks is what we guys do. The idea of shooting a huge load while watching our select porn videos, is an exhilarating experience. For hours on, I would go searching for the best public jerking|fucking, big-dick-wet-pussy action, mmf-mff threesome videos on the internet. As you all know, five minutes turns into an hour; an hour turns into a few more. Life just passes us by with our dicks in hand 24|7, so my new motto as I embark on this NoFap journey is: 'Stop Jerking Off' and I mean it in both its senses. Next stop, finding an accountability buddy, the support system wouldn't hurt.

    First goal, 90 days hardmode challenge. Here I go.
     
    swervin_martini, Feb 2, 2014
    swervin_martini, Feb 2, 2014
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  2. Feb 3, 2014 #2
    William

    William Fapstronaut

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    Hi martini. Welcom. Myself, I prefer lemon drops, but my wife says I am a pushover.

    I see a lot of guys who shop up here and announce "I have quit." They feel pretty good about themselves for three or four days, then the withdrawals come around asking for a fix. At first they ask nicely, even politely. Then they become insistent. Then they become downright rude, then mean, and then, if you don't give them what they want, they punish you, physically, mentally, and emotionally.

    While you are struggling with this, let me suggest you take some time to study the problem.

    http://www.nofap.org/forum/showthread.php?2402-Get-educated-get-tools-and-learn-to-love-withdrawals

    Above link, first page, first link, is the most important. That is Yourbrainonporn's Gary Wilson explaining the science of our problem. Once you understand porn is just a button we push to release dopamine, the best drug in the world, you will see that dopamine is actually our problem. Why do you watch porn, why does it feel good to watch it? There is a scientific answer to that. Knowing that answer helped me get clean. 6 months PMO, porn, MO free. I am no monk, I am no saint, I have real sex, not pixelated imaginary sex. Join the club.

    Keep going. Porn is not an option.
     
    William, Feb 3, 2014
    William, Feb 3, 2014
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