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Stephen, 15 years old, New at Nofap, Need tips

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Actinism, Mar 2, 2018.

  1. Actinism

    Actinism Fapstronaut

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    Hey Guys,

    I‘m Stephen, 15 years old and i discovered the world of NoFap. I tried it for one month and my longest streak was about 5 days. Today I restarted and decided to sign up in this forum.
    So yeah, it’s maybe a bit direct but does anyone have some tips for me with Nofap? I have the problem, that my libido is becoming stronger and stronger everyday I’m doing Nofap.

    So that is me. I hope I’ll reach the 90 days soon.

    Stephen
     
    Last edited: Mar 2, 2018
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  2. Septimus

    Septimus Fapstronaut

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    Welcome @Stephen, I'm glad you're here. And I'm happy for you that you're getting on this at an early age. A lot of us wish we'd done that!

    Don't hesitate to ask questions; that's the best thing to do! If you look below this post, you'll see a link to "what's working" for me. My further suggestion is to take time exploring this site, learning, and connecting with other people. There are a lot of guys your age here.
     
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  3. Hey Stephen,
    Welcome to the NoFap community!
    If you haven't already, take a look at this information on rebooting. I've found it helpful in knowing what to expect.
    As Septimus said, feel free to reach out (via private message) to me or anyone else here.
    Best of luck during your reboot.
    Again, Welcome!
     
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  4. Hey @Actinism ,

    I'm just a normal ordinary member. No moderator super powers and no special insite. I share my ESH (Experience, Strength and Hope) of what works for me.

    Just another warm welcome and a heart felt hello. This community has helped me so much.

    What worked for me was "working" it. It took hard work for me to complete a hard reboot (No pmo) for 120 days, then move into a Sex Positive mode.

    First, reading the literature published by NoFap itself along with reading journals.

    Then, doing the work. Writing in my journal and replying to introductions and other's journals.

    Finally, but not least, getting involved with the fellowship. I found it on the forums, but also in people's profiles. The forums tend to be longer posts, where the profiles tend to be more "conversational".

    That is what has worked for me. I like to remind myself that this community was here waiting for me with the lights on when I arrived. Now, I have to do my best to be there when someone comes to the community.

    Then, watch this video:



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    PS -

    One of the ways I got involved with the fellowship was by reading some really great journals. Reading other's stories with their victories and even defeats is a big part of my program.

    I've included journals from all age groups, spiritual members, religious members, secular members, male and female. You should find journals that help. If not, look around, there are hundreds of others from which to choose. When I say "it works if you work it", reading journals is part of that work.

    Once you open a journal, click "Watch Thread" in the upper right of the page to get alerts when new posts are made. Here are just a few:

    @Alikersantti - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/155162/
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    @C. J. - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/153580/
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    @Reverent - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/143845/
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    @Struggle Bug - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/141911/
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    @BigDawg913 - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/145872/
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    @kropo82 - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/78164/
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    @tet2vd - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/144513/
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    @Protagoras - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/109842/
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    @JakeO5 - https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/152940/
     

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