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Start to think of P0RN in a realistic and logical way!

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Deleted Account, Jan 10, 2024.

  1. This is a suggestion how to think if you still struggles with this shity addiction of yours and to those who still struggles with relapses.

    This might sound hard, but the truth always hurts!

    To look at women as objects or tools for your own satisfaction is very disrespectful and unfair to them. They are just as much humans as we men are. They didn't have the choice to choose to be born with a PU$$Y, a thicker A$$ or B00BS. They was born with them for a purpose to be able to carry their/our children, give birth to them and also feed them, nothing more.

    It's the porngraphic industry that has made us see them as triggers and more than what they really are, for our own selfish desires. The porngraphic industry feeds on our addiction and are able to continue to grow because of your promotions and that you pay memberships or directly to the performers you watch. If you haven't done that, maybe the porngraphic industry wouldn't have been this big as it is today.

    Some/many of these people you watch (especially the women) might do this because they doesn't have any choice, they are forced to it or they have to because they can't get another job for some reason. I don't think that I could live with myself, if it come to my knowledge that one of these performers I had watched for a long time and maybe donated money to, has taken her own life because she had to do things and got paid to do things against her will, maybe she didn't had any choice because maybe she had children to feed or needed money to survive. No one is made out of stone, everyone has there limits and to know that you might have been apart to someones suicide is not a great feeling!

    To blame that you have high sex drive, might be a cause for some, but not all of us. It's the porngraphic material, together with masturbation and orgasm that makes the increase of our sex drive because your brain has that power to make us feel it. You brain doesn't care if you struggle with your addiction, it has only one target in It's mind and that is to make you as horny as possible that you won't be able to resist to PMO. The only way you truly will notice your "truly" sex drive is to break free from this shity and unnecessary addiction.

    So please, do yourself a favor and really be determined to get rid of this so you won't ruin your own life or others! Porngraphic performers might struggle as much with their jobs/life as you do with your addictions. Try to make this world a better place for both men and women without P0RN.
     
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  2. Sonata

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    Thumbs up to your post Operation Change.

    I think the "high sex drive" rationale is bogus. No one is programmed to masturbate to and consume sexual material as much as most of us do. What keeps us going in excessive fashion is the same mechanism that keeps casino slot addicts play. We're addicted to dopamine and PMO helps us produce dopamine release. But we're caught in a vicious circle where the more we get, the more we need. As we become accustomed, our neurotransmitter receptors get less and less sensitive to dopamine and we need more of it, leading us to consume more porn and masturbate more. The only way to rebalance this is to go back to the old ways. Those who claim to have a high sex drive should find a sexual partner with whom they can meet their sexual needs, or masturbate without porn. A truly high sex drive does not justify the need to excessively consume porn. It's a lie people tell themselves to keep consuming!
     
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  3. Thank you for the thumbs-up and that you agree with my post!

    Those who have a "high sex drive" should find ways to ease them instead of making them any worse. To get a partner to only have "sex" with to satisfy your sexual needs is not okey. In a relationship it should not only be about "sex", it should be so much more than that. Sex shall be something you both wanna do and enjoy and not because one of you needs it. If you mange to have such a strong "sex drive" and your partner doesn't want to have sex and you can't ease your urges, than masturbation is the only way I suppose.

    Masturbation without watching porn is absolutely the way to go., if you now have to masturbate. It's much better to masturbate to your own imaginations and if you struggle with having a hard time with imagination, you can always reed a sex novel or something to help you. Maybe even buy a sex toy even though male sex toys seems to be "taboo" which I don't understand why. Nobody shall be questioning what you do in your privacy. What your brain doesn't see, doesn't hurt it. If you see too much female flesh you might be in big trouble since a males brain loves nude women.
     

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