Something to fill the void/express myself

Hello brothers,

I am kind of in a dilemma right now.

Somehow I feel that there is something missing in my life, I miss that excitement, that feeling of being alive.

But I don’t know where to find my passion, that thing to put my energy into.

I am thinking of dating some women just for the fun of it and the excitement and pleasure but I know that I am not ready and don’t want a relationship right now.

I also want to find out what might be a hobby for me to put my energy into and to really enjoy.
Right now I try to learn making beats with the program FL Studio and I am already working out and doing karate but it’s not filling this inner void and wish of feeling alive.

Do you have any ideas what else I could try? I think it should be an activity where I am doing something actively and not aomething like reading.

Is it a good idea to start dating even if I don’t feel ready?

I am on nofap day 0 because I don’t even try seriously (I always mess up on day 2/3 and then give up) and am working on my psyche with a therapist.

Thanks brothers!

 

Addition:
I also kind of that this passion/new hobby should be something where I can express myself and my feelings.

Thats why I am trying to make beats right now even if the process is quite unemotional.

 

Hm thanks for your advice, tbh I have always been interested in drums because I have a lot of energy and also anger sometimes. Why do you think a piano would be better?

 

I didn’t even come up withe the idea of writing songs. But its a very good point!
Thanks a lot.
I will have to think about that.

 

Thats a good idea, but my problem is not a lacknof energy.
Instead it’s even too much of energy.
I feel like I have to put it somewhere intonsomething that I really enjoy.

 

Hello brother,

thanks for your advice.
Yes I know him and I think he’s right.

I have a whoke night of sexchats and masturbation to submissive stuff behind me.

But I won’t let that addiction beat me!

Greetings from Bavaria

 

Hello there,

damn you are right.
I know I have relapsed several tines whike I wanted to create some beats in my laptop.

Thats why I think of buying a E Drumset or a real one and learn drumming instead of being on the laptop the whoke time.

And yes I know I have to go out of my room spend time with my family or my friend.

I even go out to a club or a shishaloung more often in the last weeks because I don’t want to stay home and rot aay all the time.

Thanks bro!

 

Hello brother,

yes indeed I have had the same thought when I started martial arts.

I am doing Oshukai-Karate right now.
I really enjoy practicing and becoming better.

It’s also great for the body as you have said because you train much wholesome instead of focusing on seperate muscle groups.

Have a great day!

 

Hey, thanks for the great answer! I am already doing Karate, going to the gym and do some Yoga.
Recently I have started making hip hop beats with FL Studio. I think thats enough for now.

 

I have thought about learning an instrument but my music theory knowledge is reallyy limited so I chose making hip hop beats just for fun.

To be hones I am dating a girl right now , I habe just met her one time for coffee but I really want to go slow with everything and focus on myself.