Alright so you are all alone. Maybe you don't have a girl, and few or no friends. How do you cope? My suggestion is accept it. If you play video games, take drugs, whine and cry, get depressed, or think about killing yourself, these things don't make it better. What I believe about loneliness may sound absurd but I think that God sometimes pulls a man out, and separates him from other people. This isolation, you will see retrospectively, was an enormous boon. Usually this is because he has problems and he needs to change. It is hard to accept. It feels like rejection or like you are defective. The truth is that it is probably both. I look at this with incredible optimism for guys like you. You can't improve unless you can face reality. Knowing where you are means that you know you must change. If you get to that point, hopefully you take one step further. This is where you take action to change. You can talk about it, watch videos, look it up on the internet, see a shrink or ignore it, but none of that will help you. You must invest in your own life by suffering. You must stop wasting your time and energy. You must be working on things that are valuable. You must be willing to tough it out when things are bad. If you build out your life, your career, your income, your education and your fitness, you will develop discipline. This discipline, which can only come through earning it, will take you as far as you want to go in life. Have you heard of the curse of the lottery? Most people who hit the jackpot for nine figures go broke. The reason is because they didn't earn their money, and consequently have no self-control or discipline. They spend and live recklessly. In the Bible, it is known as the story of the Prodigal Son. Reading it would be a good investment of your time. The man who works hard and builds wealth does not lose it easily. Discipline becomes more than a habit, it becomes you. You must have discipline. Completing a hard mode reboot will take incredible suffering. You will have a lot of times when you think you can't go on. You will be tempted. You will be emotional, you will go through self doubt. This is building discipline in you. It is the reason why, later on, you will be successful. You earned it. Never forget: "Easy come, easy go." Just remember to focus all your energies on getting though today. Keep going, don't quit. The day will arrive much sooner than you think when all this pain pays off. The women, the house, the respect, and the life you want will come to you through discipline.
yes take it as a message from god itself that you are destined to be successful don't waste time in sorrow work on your self and success attracts people more then a lonely depressed person regardless of the fact that he/she is kind hearted, hardworking, down to earth, etc.
