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Some days a slave - Some days a king

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by Honey_Singh_420, Jul 28, 2020.

  1. Honey_Singh_420

    Honey_Singh_420 Fapstronaut

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    Hello everyone,
    So far my nofap journey is accounted as :-
    Post-masturbation to my fantasy, numb for a while than i'm full of regret. Later on, watching recovery videos, reboot content things get in order.
    A week or two goes pretty fine, then all of a sudden - whether i'm in middle of something or sitting idle, a thought pops up in mind.
    I decide not to go with it.
    It comes again and again.
    I just sit back and relax saying - You have all the freedom to come and go as i don't exercise control over you, but i choose what i wanna do. I won't do what you say.
    The urge dissipates.
    But the problem arrives when within a few days, my body and mind start asking for pleasure. The cravings for got a bit subtler. It then repeatedly asks for that squirt of dopamine, that relaxation with high.
    But as everyone knows, this is just part of that horrible cycle to make oneself far more miserable.
    Please help me out.
     
  2. Well one big thing that keeps me going is knowing what pleasure and happiness lies ahead, people are so out of tune with themselves they do not even realize what their bodies can actually do, what dopamine has the power to do in you. A small example is aesthetic chills or frisson, that intense wave that hits me when I listen to music or I am reading, when pmo free I get it all the time, there are so many natural ways to get high off of dopamine that are completely healthy, like runners high for example, so to conclude my point I can stay strong because I know the pleasures I will have when I stop will be way better than when I am fapping.
     
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