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Social Anxiety Spikes

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by archerfixme, Aug 28, 2023.

  1. archerfixme

    archerfixme New Fapstronaut

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    Need some advice. I was wondering if years of porn and masturbation abuse throughout my puberty phase might be affecting how I socially interact with people. I seem to be better but sometimes when I'm talking to people I'll just feel this hollow, dissociative neurotic feeling where I have to force myself to continuously interact while it not feeling natural.
     
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  2. HealingBodyandMind

    HealingBodyandMind Fapstronaut

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    Exact same thing happens to me - I could even have said the same words

    Yes, I think PMO is 100% the root cause of this

    Quit PMO like your life depends on it… because in a way, it actually does!
     
  3. archerfixme

    archerfixme New Fapstronaut

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    Have you noticed any improvements throughout you streak. Felt like I was doing better last week cause I was coming out of a flatline just to go back into a flatline again.
     
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  4. nomo

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    You are not wrong, PMO effects the brain and it zaps us of real connections. In order to PMO we live this secret life of being a pervert while staring at porn. It's hard to then transition into a sharp guy who has it all together when interacting with REAL people.
    PMO is like any addiction, being addicted to anything is going to effect how we interact with people.
     
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  5. HealingBodyandMind

    HealingBodyandMind Fapstronaut

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    Yes, I am starting to notice some improvements specifically in the past week. I felt overall much better after the first couple weeks without porn, but this past week or so the anxiety is starting to go down.

    I also try to exercise 3 times a week, eat decently healthy, and I've been listening to Gregorian chants on YouTube. So I am combining NoFap with spirituality (Catholocism/Christianity) and also eating well. And I don't drink much caffeine (caffeine can mimick the symptoms of anxiety even if you are not feeling anxious).

    So yes, I think improvements will come as long as you implement good life choices in addition with doing NoFap
     
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  6. My theory, which science probably thinks is wrong, is that after the dopamine receeds
    from a recent use of PMO, the brain goes into shock. It takes the form of any of
    a host of mental illnesses. You don't know it until you've been clear for a long time.

    But you look back and say, PMO caused this problem and that problem and PMO caused
    me to do this also.

    Just like how a domino falls, it reacts to the forces upon it. So is the brain, in and
    out of states of unearned pleasure and fearful micro-withdrawals.

    That is one way the brain heals in the hard mode reboot.
     
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