should i wait for the one or start having fun?

Just my opinion, but I say don't put so much pressure on yourself to find "the one" right away. Odds are you may need to date several people to find the one. Dating and getting to know someone can be a growing experience for you. It'll help show you what you really want and don't want in a significant other. Would I be in a rush to find a girl to kiss and have sex with? No, just let things happen naturally over time.

 

I’ve thought like this before, and then I actually got the girl who I liked a lot. But then SHE stopped wanting to hang out with me haha

So even if your intentions are in the right place, it doesn’t mean you will have the fairy tale ending even if you do temporarily get the girl you want

Maybe I’m wrong though, but that’s just my experience so far in life

 

This is not really a question for us to answer, its what YOU want to do and your own preferences.

 

It’s ultimately your decision. If you do decide to have sex though, there are risks involved - pregnancy for example. Just be careful with whatever you decide to do

I do think that having sex or kissing a girl, even if she isn’t perfect, is way better than PMO. Also, being with a real girl does help drive away PMO urges in my honest opinion

But it’s your choice