hey I’m 19 days officially no pmo no fantasy nothing full committed...today I chat with a girl asking her to go on a date..she also send me some photo which I insta closed after open coz they was a bit xxx...but now I refuse to go and tell her I’m not interested anymore...since I do this action. Should I consider it a relapse or just an incident ? Thank to everyone this is a true family much love ❤️ ❤️
Would consider this a small awkward incident, not a relapse. But if you think it may just lead to more p-subs or actual P, try maybe cropping it to were it’s just a face (if there is one) or simply delete it all together since your interest for her has faded away anyways, right?.. PS sounds like it maybe a spam bot but you didn’t go in to much detail about the person you’re chatting with Anyways good luck on the date if you do decide to go brother
No this is not a relapse, nothing is your initiative and you closed it soon enough as you found out its a trigger. Well done brother reboot firmly.
If you go looking for bad things, it's a relapse. If it finds you first but you stay with it and engage with it, it is a relapse. But if it appears at your doorstep and you slam the door in its face and ignore it, you have simply done the right thing.
i would just go on the date... nofap is mainly targeted to fight P, not real life encounters with girls and having sexual experience with them.. as of my writing right now, i am also goig on a date in like 3 hours, and most likely hookup. I see sexual encounters with real life girls a step towards rewiring your brain with the real word, with real sex and fighting off porn. BUT these are just my own conditions and how i see nofap, everyone has ofcourse their own condtions of what they see as a relapse. just giving my 2 cents.