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Sexual Performance W/o PMO

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by coolguy2003, Jan 11, 2017.

  1. Jan 11, 2017 #1
    coolguy2003

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    I am currently on Day 11 of NoFap and Day 21 without porn. My only concern at the moment is if and when I get a sexual partner is how my performance will be. I'm currently doing kegal exercises and such, but I'm generally worried about how fast I'd be considering I haven't orgasmed in a while. I'd definifely communicate that I'm doing NoFap to him/her, but I don't want NoFap to turn me into a one pump chump because of semen retention.

    Thoughts or advice?
     
    coolguy2003, Jan 11, 2017
    coolguy2003, Jan 11, 2017
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  2. Jan 12, 2017 #2
    Everything999

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    Maybe it is me but I never really understood fast ejeculation. If you are going in and out of something (sorry trigger) when you can feel things starting to get bubbly you can stop for a second right? Let it cool down, kiss a bit, say something nice, calm down and then start slowly again. You don't have to go absolutely insane like some porn star and go a 1000 rpm. Just go in cycles.
     
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    Everything999, Jan 12, 2017
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  3. Jan 13, 2017 #3
    nitsuj0786

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    You may be minute man the first time you get back to sexual activity but from my experiences after getting rid of PIED you will begin to go for longer. It gets better as it goes, as long as you are honest with who you are with they will understand.
     
    nitsuj0786, Jan 13, 2017
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  4. Jan 16, 2017 #4
    the promise

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    Well , its true what this guy said you las longer since you stop PMO dont be afraid just enjoy and dont see her or.him as an object just do things.with love luck !
     
    the promise, Jan 16, 2017
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  5. Jan 20, 2017 #5
    Fiftyish

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    You can also let your partner know that you haven't been with anyone for a long time, and you might not last as long as you'd like... Let them know that next time will be better. It might give them something to look forward to...;)
     
    Fiftyish, Jan 20, 2017
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  6. Jan 23, 2017 #6
    Rion008

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    Get the extended duration condoms that numb you. The more evolved answer is to cultivate sexual and orgasmic mastery. The book 'Multi-Orgasmic Man' can change ur life
     
    Rion008, Jan 23, 2017
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