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Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by kumarach, Aug 5, 2022.

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  1. Aug 5, 2022 #1
    kumarach

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    so since quite a few months now i have been chasing online texting over porn as in text women/girls online and specifically those kinda girls who're looking for something casual and sexual tbh. and not really a good sexual relation most of them are looking for a sex chat which makes them reach orgasm and they expect the same from me.nothing unusual.

    but the thing is that I don't like it. i had started doing it thinking that it would be better than porn if i got to talk to someone and have a sexual connect rather than masturbating to a computer screen and watch 2 people have sex.

    the problem is-even though this is a first person experience but still this isn't healthy. All it teaches our brain about sex is that it's something to be pursued through chats and texting which is not at all true.


    so much so,recently i met a woman who asked me send her vids of myself masturbating and help her get off to it....the problem is she asked me ot do it thrice a day which is literally asking me to drain all my energy. i feel fedup.
     
    kumarach, Aug 5, 2022
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  2. Aug 6, 2022 #2
    JoeinUSA

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    And what exactly are your private recovery goals?

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  3. Aug 8, 2022 #3
    WilliamTheChristian

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    If you send her such videos, then she can blackmail you or publicly disclose those videos to embarrass you.
     
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  4. Aug 8, 2022 #4
    MasturTainer

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    Do you know this woman IRL? If not, this is quite dangerous.
     
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  5. Aug 8, 2022 #5
    InappropriateUsername

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    You even sure it’s a woman??
     
    InappropriateUsername, Aug 8, 2022
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  6. Aug 9, 2022 #6
    Alcatel1312

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    To be honest, guys like you who can easily be controlled by women need the red pill community. I was a simp like you, started reading red pill, watching fresh and fit and to be honest, the girls started being attracted to me.
     
    Alcatel1312, Aug 9, 2022
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  7. Aug 15, 2022 #7
    Reborn16

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    I think the red pill community has some good points, lots of wake up calls for sure.

    However it also appears that much of that content comes from a place of bitterness and resentment. It feels great to hear these things, or even put it into practice. I went through that from one extreme to the other.

    Eventually perhaps the pendulum should swing back to the middle though. It's somewhere between being a push over and only thinking of oneself when it comes to intimacy.
     
    Reborn16, Aug 15, 2022
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