Sexual Conflict

I have a Sexual Conflict, on the one hand I like too much of a sexual experience with a woman on the other I always cramp when dealing with women, so I show no male self-confident behavior. Have zero experience. Sexually, I always want to take a passive submissive role so others decide about me. But I can not make any real sexual experiences. This is a complex conflict because I just can not easily approach women. In my mind, I assume that I am rude to women and rather resolve conflicting lines rather than being rude and unable to deal with women. Prostitute I would go but no idea