Sex during PMO

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by mcade, Jun 24, 2018.

  1. mcade

    mcade Fapstronaut

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    i was at day 4 but I ended up hooking up with a friend last night which we sometimes do. I just wanted to avoid porn and I justified it in my mind. I regret it now as I feel like I gave up once again. They do not know about this addiction and I admit I am ashamed to share it.

    I am wondering if this failure means I should restart my counter.
     
  2. What is your main quest? PMO, MO, O or all 3. If i was you, I'd keep the counter. O is the hardest to abstain from (no-one chooses wet dreams), why not work on PMO first.
    Is there a reason why you would write sex off the menu?
     
  3. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    Speaking from experience I'm on hard mode pmo with my wife no sex no masterbation no orgasm the only true way to fix yourself sorry that's like giving an alcoholic Light beer or a heroin addict just small amounts of heroin and everything will be okay just don't look at this and it will put the other images in your mind so unless you're doing hardmode pmo you're just fooling yourself so who's in charge here your mind is a charge of your brain your brain is in charge of your body Therefore your mind is in control of your body don't let the little head with a big head did you really want to fix yourself check yourself before you wreck yourself relapse is a choice I've seen people repeatedly relapse that aren't truly dedicated and doing it the right way so remember once you start it's about commitment self discipline delayed gratification self improvement touching base with a higher power it's God's choice and when my wife is ready that's what we will resume I don't put it in numbers to fix this it's pretty much in God's hands okay take your hands off of it you are on nofap correct???
     
  4. Hard mode isn't for everyone. It's certainly not for me. Maybe it's Mcade's answer, but I'd sooner not tell him it is. It's ok to struggle and to learn your strengths, if all newcomers went to take down hardmode, there would be alot of dissapointment. I'm only on no PMO, and sure it's not fool proof, but it's a start, and any person on here can better themselves on it if they try. Relapse doesn't mean the game is over
     
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  5. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    So let me get this straight pmo that stands for porn, masterbation, orgasm all three involve sex so you can say you can have sex how can you not pmo? It sounds like you like to be able to set yourself up with a way out in other words I already know I'm going to fail so I'll just make it easy for myself and ensure that I have that to be able to do to fail it seems really chickenshit to me that's all or maybe or I'll just do it a little bit here and there that is childish be a man own it it's partly why the world is in the condition that it is well I got to get myself a way out
     
  6. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    It's too hard to do it right the first time so I'll keep on picking myself up and whacking off as it'll make me feel better so I can come back and post some more of the same stuff tomorrow why not just start off and do it the right way that's what's wrong with the world today wow bunch of pussies
     
  7. You are an absolute idiot. Wow what a hero, he's doing hardmode, get over yourself. How about you try to be helpful instead of competitive? Deadset, are you the addiction guru or something. You know shit, thankyou.

    Ps. When you try to bite back, please use commas so i can understand your nonsense
     
  8. mcade

    mcade Fapstronaut

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    My issue is porn which leads to ending masturbation then orgasam. I have to stop the porn yes I went hard mode but I don’t think sex is the issue if I was not messed up at an early age from porn 8 probably would not be here.

    This is all new to me I dont know the right path I am trying to figure it out. I feel like crap about myself and all this I dident need bitter debate I was seeking support and logic.
     
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  9. Foxislander

    Foxislander Fapstronaut

    I am sorry I am a big harsh something about not having any sex for 97 days, makes things clear. I had to cut z friend of mine out of my life who is an alchoholic, he said it was just too hard not to drink. sound familiar? it's just too hard not to tap? words like commitment, excellence, self improvement, delayed gratification , the sheer power of has over ucas men is undeniable. once you have arrived where I am, going backwards to porn, masturbation, but eventually having orgasms with my wife as God intended for sex to be is my endgame goal. through this process of fund correctly there is much more clarity to be gained. god bless sorry if I offended anyone, just hate half as anything anymore.
     
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