SEMEN RETENTION AND MASCULINE POWER!

So what should we do in a relationship? Sex without ejaculation?

 

You did it with this one. This is pure motivation right here. Thank you for posting this.

 

I've been thinking to myself...when I retain, I feel so good. I feel, at times, like a completely different being. It makes me wonder why I ever revisit compulsive sexuality as a coping mechanism to make myself feel better. It goes to show how sneaky and subversive my ego is, and how it is always out to derive pleasure from the external world the moment I don't 'feel good'. I think for me, the key is to realize, like you said, that only I can grant myself the happiness and power I so desire. The minute I see orgasm and ejaculation as means of 'relief' or as a tool to 'feel better' - I need to revisit posts like this and remember how much better it is for me to retain. And it's my opinion, though perhaps unscientific, that when one of us retains, we lift all other men up simultaneously.

And that's another thing. I think, as men, we all desire to feel powerful. There is a difference between true 'power' and 'force' - and the world has these two confused, I know I get them confused at times. True power is being whole and complete within oneself, and being able to stand on your own two, ten toes down. Force is being needy, 'forcing' women and the external world to give me what I think I need to be happy and complete. It seems to me that men have associated 'masculine power' with sexual prowess or scoring women. Masculine power is being self-sufficient, a monad unto oneself, knowing yourself and where you stand at all times. Knowing I don't need a woman to be a man. I choose the right woman, if I am being a man true to himself, if I choose to have a woman in my life at all. But I don't need her. Because the only time I find myself needing a woman is when I have the urge to procreate. And if I have the urge to procreate, I start a family - or I leave it. I'm not going to sit here and say that I could never truly love a woman, because I could. But if I do love a woman, it's because I CHOOSE to, not because I need to love her. I don't need to love her. I need to love myself. Retention helps me live life in that awareness and realization.

 

how long does it take for it to be easy to get women and have them attracted to you? cause i constantly masturbate, probably 2-3 times a day, maybe more it depends. im trying my very hardest by going 90 days atleast by praying 5 times a day as i am muslim.

but things i noticed in 5 days, even though i got back into exercising so this may have something to do with it, i notice feel actual muscle around my body, when i was masturbating all i felt was just fat and nothing more. could this be explained by all the vitamins and minerals semen contains? anyone that i would probably tell look at me crazy.

 

Thanks for the encouraging and guidance!

 

Maybe ejaculate once a month?

 

True.

 

to answer your questions:

no it’s best to not ejaculate unless it’s for procreation. how feasible this is for 99% of people? not very

but it can definitely be done and can actually alleviate sexual tension and avoid all the negative side effects of orgasm

either be celibate

or

sex without orgasm. this is probably harder at least initially and will likely result in some mishaps

Both present their own challenges. i personally believe both ways are good

 

What is “true power “? What is the foundation stone that the builders rejected? Why did King Arthur have to draw the sword from the stone in order to become King?