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Self pity

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by FarmaRobB, Apr 30, 2016.

  1. FarmaRobB

    FarmaRobB Fapstronaut

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    I relapsed yesterday only after an 8 day streak and I've been crying all day today, its not the first time I've cried after relapsing but this time its both self hatred and pity. I get gay thoughts on a daily basis and even thoughts about my own mother sometimes, I had a girlfriend once who I still love but I too much of a coward to talk to her and I practically threw her away because I was afraid to have sex with her and she loved me to bits which makes it ten times worse. I've telling myself all day that the next time I relapse I'm gonna end it which is obviously the wrong approach... I seriously need help.
     
  2. Decoder™

    Decoder™ Fapstronaut

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  3. SLIPZ19

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    It's not worth it dude. The fact that you are able to post this shows that you are not broken or gone mate. You can be better. You will be better. You can be happy. You will be happy.
     
  4. @FarmaRobB

    Hello Mate,

    I am sorry for you situation.

    I mean, life is tough and it does not get any easier (unless you make it so)

    If you have a girl that you love, then you should stick with her.

    Why don't you avoid the sex (I prefer the term love-making) after you feel comfortable?

    I can tell you that it can be a lot of fun to just stick around. These days, it can get crazy with girls and sex.

    The best moments (and sex) I had with girls I really connected to.

    There is nothing bad about speaking to her about dating without the sex.

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    If you dumped her, well it can get tricky because you need to show that you care (better be sure that she did not moved on).
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    Stop watching porn as it warps your mind.

    I mean the other day, I saw all those porn stars without make-up and boy, if I would see such girls in the club, I would run... ;-)
     
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