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Seeing major results NOFAP IS AMAZING

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Scorpion2, Jul 26, 2018.

  1. Scorpion2

    Scorpion2 Fapstronaut

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    Ok so i have done a bunch of two week stints and even went 30 days one time and have always had good positive results but for some reason i always reach my goal (2 weeks, 30 days etc etc) and decide i reached the goal i fap and and i end up going back to me being my LAME self who stays home and plays video games.

    This time i decided to not set a goal i just said to my self i wont fap and i will change my life around and thats it.

    The results so far have been amazing... when i fap i mostly stay in the house only leaving home to get fast food . The sad thing is my confidence was so shit, my social anxiety was so bad that i would not even make conversation with drive through employees only making order and saying thank you. I would have no drive to even brush my teeth and since i work from home often times i would not even brush my teeth. I played games and watched youtube and even ignored my friends asking me to go out. I put off going for groceries and when i would go i would not talk to a SINGLE PERSON or even acknowledge any girls.



    So what has happened so far for these 19 days...

    I been eating healthy barely any fast food.

    -Been having way more confidence and walk with way more energy not giving a fuck what people think about me.
    - I have been finding any reason i can to leave the house , i go shopping alot , take my dog to park, go get haircut, wash my car and get this during all this i go out of my way to start conversations with people. If i see someone i will just start a conversation..

    - I have started conversations with girls in parking lot without even thinking much of it... for example yesterday i park and two girls park next to me and get out. Normally i would not say a single thing to them but without even thinking as soon as i hear them talk immediately i go whats up Ethiopia ....they had Ethiopian accents i knew for sure since i had friends in HS that were Ethiopian..immediately they are like wow how you know blah blah and we talk as we are walking to the shopping center... if i had fapped no way would i have the balls to start conversation with two girls. Another girl is sitting at walmart parking lot and i pass her then turn back to her and say i see you looking at my ass and she says haha i cant resist. (WTF)

    - Craziest thing that happened is that people are STARTING conversations with me... Before i would go to costco and buy 20-30 things be there for an hour and not speak to anyone and nobody would speak to me. Yesterday i went and picked up 3 things was in there for 15 minutes and had 6 people start a conversation with me...I go and pick up a chicken and some lady goes they look really good dont they, they are fresh he just put them out (wtf how random) i talk to her for a bit... then right after that two people comment on my shirt...yes two different people at different times comment on my shirt... A SHIRT I HAVE WORN 100 TIMES BEFORE AND NEVER HAD ANYBODY SAY ANYTHING ABOUT IT. I also had two people that work at costco greet me and made small talk with them. I am not saying its superpowers but i feel the energy that i got can be noticed by people and they want to be part of it.

    -I also notice that when i do start a conversation weather it be attractive girl or employee at a store they dont just answer my question they continue talking to me and usually its me that ends the conversation or walk away.

    - I also been brushing my teeth twice a day and even went as far as picked up coconat oil and doing oil pulling. I also bought mouthwash

    - I got a haicut and actually style my hair now when leaving the house.

    - I have not been to gym for 3 months now and yesturday just got out of the house and went to gym... didnt even have a plan to do it just did it.

    Right now i am about to go to lake w my dog to get some tan because next week i am meeting a friend and we will take some pictures for tinder will be my first time getting on tinder. O yah and this is the friend i have not seen in two years because he is 1 hour away...only been talking to him on the phone from time to time and we are hanging out next week. I used to hangout with him 3-4 times a week back in college.

    Hoping to see some girls at the lake and start some conversations right now.


    I ll be posting in this thread at least once a week just updating my progress.

    NoFap is real guys the main thing i would recommend anyone going through this is not to substitute NoFap with something useless like playing games or watching youtube because both of those give dopomine rewards for nothing too.
     
  2. For sure, I have noticed some of the same things. Especially less social anxoean and talking freely with people. Women have started conversation s with me, I notice them smiling more. I think is an energy we put off when we start to get ourselves back from the holds of PMO. It feels great to get out, talk with peilpe and feel confident.

    Becoming comfortable in our own skin again, being able to be ouraleour is a wonderful thing. Good luck thanks for sharing.
     
  3. Wow congrats man. I'm having similar results but still feeling a little bit of a flat line even though its been five days.
    At my job I was able to have a short conversation with a customer that came into my aisle and she gave me a attractive "Have a nice night" at the end of just joking about spices. I don't know if that was chance or if my confidence is really coming back up. But it felt good to start a conversation again. Also I started this time again without giving a date and my mind is in a different mindset this time. If I can leave the feeling of wanting to watch porn I don't think I'll go back.
     
  4. My Flatline come in cycles, have you havd any of that yet?
     
  5. TheMoose

    TheMoose Fapstronaut

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    Great story! I found it really encouraging. I'm waiting for the same benefits myself!
    Good luck in the future man!!

    //TheMoose
     
  6. whatrichme

    whatrichme Fapstronaut

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    Good progress man. I am on 140day+ and your post resonated a lot. (same about teeth, hairstyle and the urge to go out on any reason)

    For random conversations, they happen here and there till today but the way it make you feel changes along the way.
    At first they put you on top of the earth, after awhile you get used to it and when there is no spark between you and the people you actually like, it feels like blah.

    but I have yet to demonstrate the courage you have now, I think you have made tremendous progress. Congratulations!
     

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