I've finally started talking to a girl I've cared a lot about for 4 years. Between both of us being in different relationships or moving at different times, things have finally lined up romantically. I am horrified though because 5 days before this alignment, I started NoFap after many years of porn use. I am scared that the flatline, especially PIED will ruin what I'm trying to build at the absolute worst time. Any advice would be appreciated.
Don't rush into dating if you don't have your shit together yet. More issues you have, more issues is going to have the woman you are dating. Woman that have their shit together are not going to be willing to date a guy with issues. The only way to date a high value woman, is to be also a high value man. If this woman is a high value woman she is probably going to see that you are not there yet and dump your ass. The best thing I did to my life was to take 3 years to work on myself. Not only NoFap, but everything I though wasn't ok with my life. After those 3 years i became the best version of myself and I was confident and happy. That lead to living a happier life overall and currently dating the best quality woman I've had in my life, I've dated a lot before her but because I wasn't in my best version the quality woman that I used to date were average.. and the high quality woman only lasted me a few weaks until they dumped me.
