Write some FACTS about masturbation that would scare someone into never doing it again, or at least not for a long while!
How about the unflattering picture of what your manhood evolves into: A drooling fiend in front of a pixelated, glowing screen in a darkened room, as you sit on sweat and shit stains, while pounding your pud like a crazed pervert, constantly glancing over your shoulder so you don't get caught, while intermediately reveling in your narcissistic pursuit of self-gratification, devoid of any real relationships and obliterating any self-esteem, as you feed either your sadistic fantasies of abusing others (exposing the monster that you are) or your masochistic fantasies of getting abused (exposing your inner brokenness and victimhood), all to be felt and experienced in one quick and darkened moment, soon to be flooded over by a self-medicated dopamine hit and a washing forgetfulness of orgasm that temporarily blocks any horrified self-realization of monsterhood or devastating crippling reality of hopeless victim, which now continues, unhealed and reinforced, to be acted out, consciously and unconsciously, in self-destructive patterns in virtually every area of your adult life. Bravo! Who the f*ck would want to marry that? Who wants that as a daddy? Who the hell wants to take a good long look at that deviant creep in the mirror and live his life?
Depression awaits you in the deep end losing all your self-esteem. Contemplating your existence and whether you will be freed from your inner demons. Either that or Nietzsche most famous quote: 'And if thou gaze long enough into an abyss, the abyss will also gaze into thee'
I have no idea if it's linked to it, but about 5 years ago I started to show signs of Glaucoma, which at my age is way too young. Nothing's developed, it's just one of those things they check every year, but who's to say it isn't linked from masturbating? It's one of the things that I use to remind myself to not do it anymore.
I highly doubt the one with the sight. Wasn't this some rumour a long time ago to prevent people from MO which was eventually debunked. Agree with the other ones, or at least I have experienced the combination myself.
It does sound fishy (I just used my example of something that happened to me with my eyes), but wouldn't it be ironic, if after all these years of looking at porn that your eyesight would get worse? Talk about punishment haha.
Your willy will stop behaving and won't come up when the time comes. You'll die alone with you willy in your hand in a dark basement.
There are no facts to scare anyone into stopping, but why are you here? I ask because something about it has brought you here, isn't that reason enough to stop? Usually the only reason to stop would be if it's out of control and you can't stop, that's called addiction. Addiction is scary, because to feel whole we need to be in control of our life and when we are addicted the addiction controls us. - Does that make sense? How often do you feel the need to masturbate? Only you know what's the right amount for you. It's an individual choice and there are no right or wrong answers if you are being honest with yourself.
From experience I can say that people look like monsters when they hit their peak while fapping. If that Applies to you too, take a video, watch it at 12 night in the dark.
I think we all know about the negatives of porno. We should be focusing more so on the postives of recovery.
I am sorry to read that you have relapsed. I cant "scare" you into not masturbating, but I cant tell you that people reboot because they want to have a better future life, so if you're thinking in the moment all the time saying "fuck it, ima watch porn, jack off" then you will always fail. From now on make a goal about why you want to quit, print it out, recite it everyday in your head, and move on. No more masturbating, no more porn, you knows its bad, we know its bad, end of story..
Funny, actually I based it on a list of similar statements that someone once gave me - of items to read if one is ever tempted. And, once when I was really feeling like relapsing, I read the list of items, and for some reason I had an uncontrollable fit of laughter, also. And, it worked, too. There is something dark and demeaning about it, but also eerily close to the truth that makes it hysterical.
huh yeah. great idea man i'll just set my dick on fire for a second and then i'll never masturbate again! /s
all of the rest of them I know most from experience are true, but yeah I think the losing sight one is a myth.
you will be lonely for the rest of your life, you won't be able to have kids, you will slowly but surely fall into depression after years of porn induced isolation, and you may even end up taking your own life.
You would start off with anxiety and everything will freak you out then probably an ocd maybe POCD or HOCD those are when the real nightmare comes in then you would constantly have fear in your head whether you like it or not and then finally stopping the addiction.. it's going to be the most hardest thing you will ever do because of the cravings, anxieties, fears, and failures you will encounter weeeell hopefully this info kinda scares you into not watching porn lol