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Reser or No Reset??

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by iLLum11, Apr 12, 2014.

  1. Apr 12, 2014 #1
    iLLum11

    iLLum11 Fapstronaut

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    This morning I was edging again, Saturday morning seems to be a tough time. I started to browse adult personals and then I stopped after a few minutes, once I realized I didn't want to go down that route, most of the ads are fake too. I am a little upset now, I wonder if I should reset my counter or not, I did stop myself after a few minutes and realized I did not want to do this. Thoughts?
     
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    iLLum11, Apr 12, 2014
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  2. Apr 12, 2014 #2
    virginpaul

    virginpaul Guest

    Good work stopping and now get out o the house and go for a walk or something and meet a real person someplace. Just open a door or let someone go ahead of you in a line.
     
    virginpaul, Apr 12, 2014
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  3. Apr 13, 2014 #3
    one32

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    Don't beat yourself up over this! These things happen. You're only human!
    Just ask yourself, "what desires/motivations led me to those websites?" Was it lust? Was it needing that dopamine surge that you used to get? If so, your personalized counter rules state that you should reset your counter.
    This journey will force us to be introspective and know ourselves better. If you never learned from these experiences, that would be a genuine failure.
     
    one32, Apr 13, 2014
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