Relapses are getting worse

You are nt alone bro. Pmo is the worst of all addiction.

 

Telling yourself PMO is an addiction is an excuse. That is NOT accurate. "I am not addicted to anything. Because porn, and masturbation, is demonic. I am the body of Christ, and Satan has no power over me." ~ STR

1 Corinthians 12:27
Now ye are the body of Christ, and members in particular.

Matthew 5:28 King James Version (KJV)
28 But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.

1 Corinthians 6:15-20 King James Version (KJV)
Know ye not that your bodies are the members of Christ? shall I then take the members of Christ, and make them the members of an harlot? God forbid. What? know ye not that he which is joined to an harlot is one body? for two, saith he, shall be one flesh. But he that is joined unto the Lord is one spirit. Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own? For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.

Hebrews 13:4 King James Version (KJV)
Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but whoremongers and adulterers God will judge.

All orgasms away from the marriage bed between man and wife, is sin.

Galatians 5:16-26 King James Version (KJV)
This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh. For the flesh lusteth against the Spirit, and the Spirit against the flesh: and these are contrary the one to the other: so that ye cannot do the things that ye would.

You cannot even have a wet dream when you are in a relationship with Jesus and the Holy Spirit is living within you. These things cannot happen if you are walking in the Spirit. We have formed habits. Habits can give legal right for demonic activity in your life. These entities torments us sufferers. We've allowed them access through are eyes, ears, thought life, and can make this NoFap journey seem impossible. All of us need to accept God's invitation for everlasting life, and we need to repent from our sin. Today, right now, that is an excuse. Today I change my excuse by putting into practice discipline from motivation to do all I can to end destructive habits. Find out what is important to you and remove yourself from idle hands and probable desolation. Get far from that, for it will not produce any fruit. You want fruit; a reward don't you? And, from all your labor?

Don't be deceived, masturbation is labor. Labor can exert one's powers of body or mind; work; toil to strive, as toward a goal. How many hours have your put in? What kind of struggle are you performing in? What is your goal when sinning? Does your grind build you an 'elevator' lifting you higher to new human endeavors? Or, are you 'digging a ditch' lowering you to abhorring degeneration? An excuse might include: continue to seek counseling to quit porn, masturbation, and climaxing without actually making stopping it most likely. And, you could one day, and soon, you might justify in your mind, "Why fight this? I can't stop! I can't win!" Find, learn, and memorize proper, lovely, edifying words. Use such words and change your outlook and attitude. You can end PMO. And more easily then multitudes of sufferers here. What is helping me effectively and efficiently is I refuse to touch myself no matter how great the pain and discomfort. End harming your brain and body with unproductive words, and actions. Choose words of life, and speak them out. Confess not to place your hands in a provocative place. You make you confession. My confession includes:

"I AM a Stands To Reason
vercomer."​

The way to stop porn and masturbating is to not allow yourself to be alone, if the tools it takes to climax are are in that room. Do NOT allow yourself an outlet to watch anything sinful. Don't enter a room alone that has PC access to the internet. Make it so you cannot use a phone to pleasure yourself. If you have to, sell your computer and turn off your phone when you must. The internet is the fullness of the tree of knowledge. It truly is the fullness of good, and the fullness of evil. You have the power to gain useful and good disciplines from the web or you lose your life. Many sad news has been written to attest to this. The good news is, GOOD takes time time, too. Practice goodness. Don't give in to temptation and please, never give up! Never open pants to touch your genitals for anything but to urinate. You control your thoughts. You control where you place your hands. You control what you look at and watch. You can do this! You can become successful in NoFap. You control what you listen to, and hear. You control where you walk. Walk to something or walk away from something. Turn your back, leave the room. Go outside. Go to a public place.

Do Not choose an excuse, but instead find your path of escape. NO excuse only excuse yourself. Forgive yourself. Get up and leave a room of temptation. You could leaving a tempting thought behind you. Go outside. Take a walk. Cool-off. You can also control what you say, firstly, to yourself. Find your words necessary for victory. What will you say to yourself? So, there is NO TRYING. Stop trying to beat masturbation. You will either seek and discover vital complete triumph, or you won't. You can! But you must accept to stop trying. Commit. Practice. You either do it, or you don't. If it is good or bad, it is up for you to choose. Decide what is best for you and obtain it. Make no error in this, either practice a bad habit or practice discipline to change into a better habit; from a crawling vulnerable caterpillar to a beautiful taking flight; butterfly. Right or wrong; from your motivation; quitting by justifying a limited counseling plea for help; or obliterate this PMO sin for good. What is your choice? Life or death? Remember: Help/support is good and encouragement can be useful, but only if in it directs you inline with your goal. And from your goal you achieve the success you moved towards. You can and will get up! You will. Conquer your own commitment to destroy this stronghold. This takes time, energy, and courage. Personally, without God in my life directing me through Jesus Christ, my relationship with Him. I could not do this. I would not reveal my faults before you.

In deed and truth,

STR