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Relapsed after 80 days!

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by mike_ha948, Nov 29, 2015.

  1. Nov 29, 2015 #1
    mike_ha948

    mike_ha948 New Fapstronaut

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    Hi, been with nofap for 3 months now, my longest streak was 80 days.
    I've noticed major changes to my life after abstaining from PMO. Increased social confidence, lot less social anxiety, feel more a lot attractive to the opposite sex. In addition, picked up new hobbies such as dancing and learning Japanese. My sense of humour was on fire and became a lot more sociable and less awkward/shy. Not to mention, 3 weeks into NoFap, had my first major make out with a hot girl at my student night club. After my long streak of abstaining, today on a rainy sunday afternoon, I succumbed myself to looking at pixels of sexual images, which inevitably lead to uncontrollable lust and consequently ejaculated without touching genitals. Which I then felt extremely disappointed with myself, but still convinced myself to look at one porn video before resetting the counter. Never gonna give in though, I will strive for those superpowers again and learn from my mistakes.
     
    mike_ha948, Nov 29, 2015
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  2. Nov 30, 2015 #2
    taqwa

    taqwa Fapstronaut

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    Head up brother! You are not starting from zero. Perhaps you may hate something that is good for you. Stay strong! Win.
     
    taqwa, Nov 30, 2015
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  3. Nov 30, 2015 #3
    Slylen

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    Heres to getting back to that 80 days again! Better yet lets go ahead and shoot for 80 years while we are at it!

    In all seriousness though don't get down about it and stay on the right track. At least you already know it does wonders for you!

    Stay Stong,

    -Slylen
     
    Slylen, Nov 30, 2015
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  4. Dec 3, 2015 #4
    mike_ha948

    mike_ha948 New Fapstronaut

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    Thanks for the support man! means a lot!
     
    mike_ha948, Dec 3, 2015
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  5. Dec 3, 2015 #5
    mike_ha948

    mike_ha948 New Fapstronaut

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    cheers bro! the grass is greener on the other side! we'll get through this together.
     
    mike_ha948, Dec 3, 2015
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  6. Dec 3, 2015 #6
    taqwa

    taqwa Fapstronaut

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    You are most welcome! I am humbled to play a small part in your recovery. Stay strong! Win!
     
    taqwa, Dec 3, 2015
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  7. Dec 3, 2015 #7
    Жить/во/ХРИСТЕ

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    Hey man, first of all congratulations on your long streak and progress. What I noticed about myself not sure if its similar for others when I hit a long streak.(More than 30-100)
    You almost get to confident when your on a good streak and you think. "O I am doing so good, I need a break one time won't hurt. Another varient I have noticed is,
    When your on streak and your trying to improve your life but the improvement are there but they are small to notice you start thinking to yourself "Im trying to be a better person and improve my life and after this long streak only a few things have improved. When this happens you might have had a bad day and these thoughts go through your head and you relapse.
    The more I think about it the whole 90 day is just a number. Yeah in 90 days you can rewire your brain or whatever but 90 days is just a number it does not mean anything. I have hit a few 90s and my fair share but what i noticed is when i relapse i dont enjoy it is a different feeling than when i started NoFap.
    Nowadays porn addiction is still on my radar but my depression is my real battle.

    Fight it to the end brothers!
    Enjoy your weekend everyone!!
     
    Last edited: Dec 3, 2015
    Жить/во/ХРИСТЕ, Dec 3, 2015
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