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Relapse after 60+ days no pmo

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Bluefire, Feb 15, 2017.

  1. Bluefire

    Bluefire Fapstronaut

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    Terrible day. Have been having fantasies that I feel ashamed of and now I've relapsed and feel more ashamed. I hope I can get right back to it and make it any 60 days. Feel like I'll never make it through.
     
  2. Fuck man don't worry. As long as your fighting you will always win.
     
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  3. Bluefire

    Bluefire Fapstronaut

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    I will make it 90 if it kills me.
     
  4. YYZed

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    Don't beat yourself up over this, be mindful of the fact that you just abstained for 60 days. Don't let one defeat take away each of those other victories. Remember that recovery is a process, most people don't knock it out in one go. Someone in SAA once told me, "If you arent on the escalator to recovery you are on your way down." I didn't take that statement seriously and not 3 years later I hit my bottom, though it was what they call a high bottom (no legal ramifications). Think of it like that, you are still on the escalator going up. Feel good about yourself in my opinion. Being so hard on yourself will only make it more difficult to recover.
     
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  5. stewie19

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    man you gotta be so proud of yourself just making it to 60 days, even if you relapsed you gotta know its a HUGE achievement and you will be stronger next time. dont be too hard on yourself
     
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  6. Yeah I just relapsed after 57 days.. i wish we could bottle up what we feel now and experience it BEFORE we relapse.. but 60 days is a great achievement - before you started NF, did you even think it was possible? And MUCH more is possible!
     
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  7. Bluefire

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    Definitely was stuck in the trap of pmo and didn't think it was possible to quit at all. Now I know I can.
     
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  8. 3000

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    You got it man! 60 days is a hell of an achievement. Everyday you wake up from here on out, think about who your doing it for. We are here for you.
     
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