Hello everybody Right now I'm on my 24th day free PMO. Among this time I have experienced really good benefits. I'm more social and confident. I spend more time with my family than ever. I began to read books (something I was doing rarely). I'm more focus in my goals. Everything is alright, except for one thing.. Let me explain you. I've been experiencing strong urges to MOing, not for P. This usually happens when I'm wherever. Streets, at my job, at meetings, with friends. I know my brain was damaged before with P. I have feet fetish. When I look at them is like if I watch some boobs or even vaginas. In the same way, when I'm talking to a girl, I imagine her nude and also that I want to fuck her. I don't know if I'm getting more perverted without PMO or if it is just some effect in the process. Please if you have experienced this, let me know. Thanks Keep in touch
Your brain is trained to think like that about women. You took away porn but for old thinking patterns to change it will take some more time. It's kinda normal. I noticed slight changes at around 70 days of my Hard Mode reboot in the way I see women sexually. For some it might be even later. So keep at it. Try to think of something else when you talk with them. Like how funny she is or how you like her personality. That should train your brain to appreciate them from different angle. Or try to think of something else entirely. Like maybe the subject of your conversation. Change the focus. If you indulge in this thinking pattern now you are keeping it from fading away. If it comes up on it's won fine, but don't consciously indulge in it. Don't expect to ever stop being turned on by women. But at the same time it can happen without objectifying them. Sounds contradictory, but that's the place we wanna be in. Not like complete apathy to them sexually, that will never happen.
Thanks for the advices, they were really useful for me these days..and I got it about the equilibrium we need to get between objectifying them and be turned on by them ..I hope with the pass of the days my mind would change and be less damaged
