i guess when porn goes out of our life, we need to fill it u with good stuff, dont make it religious, but make it scientific or just feel good journals , blogs or books , i am reading farnam street and Insight by Tasha Eurich.
its doesnt cost a lot, so dont wait for reviews, however if you still want it anyway, there are many online, but basically it is about self awareness, and how many times it happens that we simply are not aware of what we or others are feeling and what exactly are the causes for that and how to overcome it
however, if you are not in the mood, then leave aside everything else and just read farnam street, you will realize wht it is once you do that
Yeah I looked it up, I do have a certain budget and many titles I want to read already and only so much time, so I'm fairly picky so I can make the best use of my reading time.
Also you realize a part of the purpose of a review is the social aspect. People can make recommendations but that doesn't automatically make it socially engaged.