My motivation for rebooting is currently strong but i sometimes feel alone in my reasons for undertaking this process compared to other guys. I have zero cravings for marriage, relationships, kids or anything of that nature. I dont want it in my life, some people may see that as sad but its my choice. My goals are to improve casual sexual encounters and nothing more. I guess my question is how does someone like me approach the rewiring process when there is not a consistent partner in my life. Those weeks, months that a sexual partner is not possible how do i dust off the cobwebs if you like.? Are there healthy masturbation techniques i could partake in and how often? I want suggestions that will keep my PIED and deathgrip away. Thanks.
From my experience, if yo want to cure PIED and death grip, you need to go hard mode (no sex, no porn, no masturbation) for at least 90 days. It might take even longer, especially if you slip during it. Total celibacy for a period of time is the the quickest way to get rid of the problems you have.
Used to be the same. I was a loner for life. Absolutely sure I dont want anything with a woman but ocassional sex, which I was not able to have due to the PIED. I failed with a 2 woman in bed as well Thing is... in my case at least.. this "loner for life" idea was ALSO caused by prolonged P usage it goes THAT deep man... im 35 now and I have my 1st stable partner in my WHOLE LIFE... and I thank god for her every fucking day. Its so much more than sex. Basically.. forget what u think now. You are still under influence. Wait for your mind to heal, than think again. As for what means to use to get your load off when u are without a partner? Dunno. I did the hard mode no PMO and than I got a 1st GF. I slipped almost immediately when Iwas picking up sexy clothing 4 her on the net. That was day 62. Soon after I split with her - good choice. Than I met my 2nd gf and im with her now for 3 months I guess...
Hi Epic Fight, When did your PIED go away? I'm in "hard mode" for 89 days now and still in total flat line. I'm getting a little worried that something is seriously wrong with me. I've done 90 days twice before and was horny as hell after finishing it, nothing's happening down there now
Thanks guys. Im day 10 of my 90 day reboot. Maybe ill reassess if i hit the magic 90. And as suggested above im in hard mode
