Question.

Is it wrong to have "fetiches" or specific things that turns me on and keep looking at them or should I quit that and only focus on the "normal" type of a girl "everyday type"?
I mean like focusing on a "normal" girl that doesn't have that sexually attractive body etc but just a normal body but same interests?
Or should I focus on the sexual attractive girl that got my dream body and everything I fantasise about?
Because when I am outdoor and spots a girl with a (in my eyes) attractive body i get really horny, so I just wandered if it was better to keep looking at those types of girls online or quit that and get extremely horny everytime I see an attractive female in real life. Looking at them online somewhat reduces my horniness towards them.
Please ask if I was unclear or you didn't understand something!

 

I do not look at them naked/ having sex.
They are not meant to be in a sexual way but I do naturally get a boner when I look at them. By that, should I stay away from looking at them? I am trying to quit porn and reducing my masturbation habit.

 

Thank you! Thats very smart!

 

Does it count as a relapse if I only watched half a pornclip and quittied because I felt it was wrong?
Or can I maintain my counting of days?
I did not masturbate to it.

 

Oh I know what it was, absolutely!
I was extremely horny so I couldn't help myself.
BUT, I closed it after maybe 1 or 2 min because I felt that it was wrong and thats not the type of sex I want.
I want sex with a real girl (a partner) or myself (if the situation calls for it).
I dont want to sit by my computer and jerk off, I wanna do it with a real woman, not a digital picture of one.
Thats why I joined this site.
So you would call it a relapse?

 

Wow, someones getting exhilarated by this...

 

http://pmo-tracker.appspot.com/?u=6403602964807680

I made a new start and after that I am getting serious about completing the goal.

 

Wrong tracker, 1 d 9h.
How do I add the tracker below my text?

 

Its all about quitting porn, isn't it?
Not quitting masturbation?

 

Ok, thanks for all the help man, in advance!

 

Yes, I would say that sex is absolutely allowed. If you can handle it, and by handle I mean that you can have sex with your girlfriend and still keep an erectile/ reach climax. Doing all this with a partner is a whole lot easier I'd say. I am single so I do it the "hard way".
It is targeted at porn, but masturbation often goes in hand with porn which means that it's good or better to stay away from both. After all, we do the 90 days challenge to be able to have sex with a real partner.

Tip: think of it like this, its 3 months of your life, ain't gonna kill ya. Considering the average person lives 80 years, 3 months is something you wont even feel the bite of.

 

I can stay away from porn.
But I cannot stay away from masturbation.
The reason I'm having such a hard time staying away from porn and sex related stuffs is because I am in the meantime trying to stay away from masturbation.
Thats too big of a deal for me, I cannot quit both. But I can quit porn.

 

Does it count as a relapse if I watch porn but don't masturbate to it?
Not even teasing myself to it?

 

Not really considering I didn't masturbate to it.