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Proportionality

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MerseyPhoenix, Feb 20, 2024.

  1. MerseyPhoenix

    MerseyPhoenix Fapstronaut

    If, like me, you were an edging/gooning addict, you might want to look at proportionality. I spent about 27 hours a week edging. I'm not one of those guys who likes to suggest "useful" things I could have done with that time. I'm now interested in "normality".
    If we take the absolute best-case scenario, where you are able to have sex with someone every day, and let's say it lasts for 45 minutes start to finish every day, that's five hours and 15 minutes tops. That's 27 hours versus 5 hours.
    So, let's think about proportionality. Can it be "normal" to spend over five times as long on an activity which is 45 minutes a day tops. If you had offered me 45 minutes edging, I'd have laughed at you, and there's the thing - edgers want it to go on and on. They want submersion and to lose themselves, free of the pain of life. That's what I wanted. 27 hours. Just think about it. One day every week.
     
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  2. AbelHimself

    AbelHimself Fapstronaut

    That's with a lot of foreplay and a nap? All jokes aside, in my opinion, edging is the worst habit a man can have, way worse than PMO because of the constant flood of dopamine.
     

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