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Premature ejaculation

Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by YHA, Oct 28, 2017.

  1. YHA

    YHA Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone!!
    I'm 23 years old and I've been on a NoFap journey for close to a year now! (Other than two weeks when I slipped there was no porn and plenty of sex)
    After two months of rebooting my pied healed and I was having the best sex of my life, after hooking up with several women I had a slip with pornography where I decided to take some time off without sex
    It is important to state the in the beginning I was masturbating once in a while without porn and after having some issues in the bedroom again I stopped completely
    I've been dating a girl for the past few weeks and we started having sex,
    The first time we had sex I came very very quickly and I felt it was reasonable, because it's been a few months since I last had an orgasm, however despite having more sex I'm always cumming ridiculously fast, much faster than I used to.
    I feel this is because sex never felt this good, the pleasure is too strong (and sex used to be unpleasant and I couldn't get an erection even) but now it's too much.
    She has been very supportive however I feel it's a bit unfair and that I should be better.
    What should I do??
    I'm considering masturbating once in a while so I can last longer, however I am afraid because of my past addictions an pied.
    Any advice??
     
  2. YHA

    YHA Fapstronaut

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    also, something that might be related, I'm generally a fit person and I work out on the regular (I work as a personal trainer) and I recently suffered a shoulder injury that's been keeping me out of the weight room (I have been doing some cardio though). does anyone know if there can bee a relationship between the two??
    (maybe because of the testosterone my body is used to from working out that I'm not getting??)
     
  3. DeadDiamonds

    DeadDiamonds Fapstronaut

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    I notice if I lift heavy at the gym, its much harder for me to O from M. Sometimes I won't even be able to. I'm pretty sure it makes me last longer in bed too.
     
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  4. Pootle

    Pootle Fapstronaut

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    It does seem like your GF isn't seeing this as a problem. Something seems different with you and this girl as you are reacting differently to her, do you know what makes this girl different? Is there any potential to talk to her with as much openness or honesty as you can?
     
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