Practical methods for healing the unconcious / beating trauma induced submissive fetish

just a few things can help you

it will go away, I used to have the same (except the dildo and bbc part)


- Raise your testosterone level by doing a cure of tribulus of 90 days (food supplement), it will make you naturally dominant to overcome your current submissive mindset
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- go nofap (lapse are ok but no relapse please)


- do some sport once in a while and calm your mind with books

 

I struggle with the same things. From my experience the best cure is time, after a while these feelings and desires will fade and you will not think of them that much. I believe fetishes like those mentioned develop from self esteem issues, whether that being from bullying or problems in the family while you are young. I believe if you wish to feel like a man again you must do manly activities, such as: weight lifting, fishing, hunting, martial arts, etc. Best of luck to you friend.

 

The longest I did it was 4 months; I Can honestly say those fetishes were no longer on my find after that long.

 

Get your testosterone levels (both free levels and total levels) checked and see if they come back low... If they are low then take appropriate treatment, it can help.

 

I take it and one of my friends take it as well. One 3month cure per year is recommended when you reach 40 years old like me. But in your case just one to get your testosterone level back to normal should be enough

 

TOTALLY AGREE WITH THAT. Great advice

 

One thing that It can help You is to start to taking action. And time, of course.

 

SOMETHING very important to get rid of those femdom nonsense and increase masculinity, is, read Marcus Aurelius's book Meditations. You need to download new concept to your brain, so it will have options to fight this psychologycal femdom addiction.

It will teach you the STOISM philosophy which is an important key to develop strong masculinity.

Just try a few pages, and you'll be amaze by the result, it'll fix your brain.

 

I have been clean for years and I find the first thing that made a huge difference for me (there are many, helping others is one that came later) was looking for similarities more often than I paid attention to differences.

 

Your real fight is not to beat Femdom porn addiction, your real fight is REBUILDING your masculinity, this will destroy this femdom nonsense.

This addictoin start when we are broken men, when who build us, it goes away