Power Struggle in Relationship

Anyone interested to talk about this?

Given the fact that majority of women out there work, an association with them tends to bring power struggle.

Take compromise too far, it leads to pussification in men. Any thoughts/

 

Right. The only way out of this is if guys date down. But if we do that it wouldn't be called relationship, would it? Afterall a relationship is an association where two people come together with a 50/50 mindset. And 50/50 Bullshit is the hub of all power imbalance.

 

Out of many, there was this one relationship I had the most peace, satisfaction and productivity in. She was't the best of looking, and I wasn't so much attached. things sailed smoothly. I didn't have to spend my focus on maintaining the ltr, I could focus it on external goals. She just followed without giving me any headache.

The issue was, she wasn't so good looking.

 

I think it's hard to maintain a relationship and focus on your goals too. the only way this works is if the girl wouldn't demand such level of time and attention as in these relationships. For most it's quite alright, because they aren't looking to achieve much.

If you are a man of purpose, if your time is of value, you wouldn't appreciate wasting it on a thing like power struggle. It's very distracting, it drains on your time and resource.

What these men need is someone who wouldn't cause much headache, someone who is willing to just be taken wherever he takes her.

 

We're venturing into talks and we have to experience what I am saying to actually be able to understand.

We might dialogue on this as much as we like and form theoretical scenarios, but in reality women and relationship hold you back. They absolutely do. A typical relationship demands a lot of sacrifices, a lot of adjustment, a lot of compromises. It draws on your time and precious energies.

A 50/50 is not really what it is. Given the fact women get only masculine as they age, steadily as the relationship progresses, that woman will control the entire thing including you. This is your pussification.

And I am not saying you cannot excel in such a partnership, but it will be through a very different route. Your whole life will be based on subjugating yourself to everyone and everyone around you, first including your partner.

The one who holds ego in a relationship is the one in charge. And most men are scared of ego, but if you take a close look, if he isn't, his partner has been all this time. Because a healthy amount of ego is necessary to direct lives. Two partners who are egoless will end up going nowhere.

 

Then you are not leading the relationship. It will be impossible for you to understand what I am saying.

Leadership is not fun. It's a completely different realm.

 

Wash my underwear!

 

Well, because you mention you had very few issues with power struggle. And that's a cue. You are not in charge. You might be able to blend well with multiple women, and if that's the case, that's again a sign that you are not in a position of leadership. Also, most leaders do not go around being friends with every chump they come across. Most leaders are in their own space and they do not socialize. They are busy with their work.