Hey everyone. It's been sometime since I've dropped by. I hope everyone is doing well. During my first attempt I relapsed after 34 days. I'm currently on Round 2 day 13 I've noticed that after my relapse I experienced completely different symptoms. I almost entered some sort of flatline. I still have morning wood and get the occasional semi hard on here and there but something is missing... I haven't been able to get rock hard (not that I've been trying) I've experienced no psycho urges to PMO/MO at all. Anyway I somehow unexpectedly met someone recently. They are aware of what I'm doing but don't agree with it. So last night we were fooling around in my car and while I had a reasonable hard on during foreplay it went completely limp when things moved on to oral. After that it was very difficult to get erect again. I should also note that I'm Bi and I'm trying to 'rebalance' my sexuality and that this was with another man. This has been a VERY interesting experiment / journey so far, especially someone in my position. I'm just not sure what is going on with my member!
I had the same thing happen 1.5 years ago. Went on a no porn, NoFap challenge for 30 days. Had a girl come over on the 30th day, and just couldn't get hard... Learned about this 'flatline' situation. I went back to fapping (without porn), before relapsing after 60 days. Nonetheless, it's definitely frustrating, and the only remedy I would recommend is to fap (without porn), or just try hitting big muscles in the gym (I didn't try this at the time).
I think it just re-activated my libido. I hooked up with a few girls after that. The relapse was much later.
Interesting. I relapsed yesterday after 15 days. Used lube and no death grip was used. I'm not making excuses just saying. Don't fap people!! Libido has come back somewhat stronger though. Looking forward to my next attempt