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Porn/masturbation orgasm vs sex with a partner orgasm???

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by MasterRoshi, Jul 19, 2020.

  1. Jul 19, 2020 #1
    MasterRoshi

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    Hey everyone! Trying to understand the difference between the two.

    for some reason my logic is telling me if I fuck someone 3x per day and orgasm then my brain, stamina, Lobito and sensitivity will all be affected in the same/very similar way that masturbation would affect me.

    furthermore, I don’t have sex just penis in vagina. Most of sex is foreplay. And in foreplay to remain erect I’m either going to stroke my penis or she is, otherwise I don’t stay hard. Therefore hands are touching me.

    the differences I do notice with fap vs nofap is my natural tendency to be depressed is lessened when I leave the bed and don’t waste energy jerking off. I also agree that I can isolate into porn (virtual reality) and ignore the real world opportunities. And lastly I do think that watching endless porn can lead to a desensitized brain. But not sure if any of this has to do with physically orgasming by myself.

    so what the heck is the difference between a very active sex life and an active mastubation life?
     
    MasterRoshi, Jul 19, 2020
    MasterRoshi, Jul 19, 2020
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  2. Jul 19, 2020 #2
    IbrahimViking

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    A witness.
    Different hormones are released.
    You cannot have sex with 1637485576 different women in one day as you can with porn.
    All the three above affect your dopamine.
     
    IbrahimViking, Jul 19, 2020
    IbrahimViking, Jul 19, 2020
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  3. Jul 23, 2020 #3
    Saythatagain

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    The lack of connection is the largest issue. Deep down we are all seeking connection and it's not possible to get that through PMO. I'm not saying that physically having sex with another person will always give you connection either. It rashes understanding and opening yourself up and being vulnerable. Scary Stuff! Once you get the connection then the other stuff is easier to see and understand but still really hard overall. It's worth the struggle and triggering at the same time because being vulnerable creates a anxiety, anxiety makes me want to cope and then PMO starts again.
     
    Saythatagain, Jul 23, 2020
    Saythatagain, Jul 23, 2020
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