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Porn caused attraction towards teenagers

Discussion in 'Compulsive Sexual Behavior' started by Wolf7, Jul 4, 2022.

  1. Wolf7

    Wolf7 Fapstronaut

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    I'm going to be raw and uncut and talk about something I haven't really shared with anyone else, but before that I'll add a bit of information for clarity. I'm a 21 year old guy, I workout often and I do well financially for myself, and I also get a lot of attraction from woman my age and older and that's just fine. The thing is for the past few years since I've been out of high school I still often find a lot of 14-17 year old girls attractive and I think this has a lot to due with the content I have viewed in the past such as girls dancing extremely provocatively on tiktok and dressing very skimpy on Instagram even though most of them don't seem to be of age; and though I don't use those platforms anymore, those thoughts still occupy my mind at times and it makes me feel so bad about myself.

    Last summer this girl messaged me on facebook and one thing lead to another through text and she came over to see me, we ended up doing some things and then I found out she was of an age that may have not be okay in certain states in the United States if you can see where I am going with this...I'm currently on day 75 of Semen Retention and that is why I am coming here because even though I've gained some level of mastery over sexual urges and desires, I feel like this is still a problematic form of sexual behavior and as my birthday is approaching this month I still see girls out and about the town and feel just the same attraction. Has anyone else experienced this that is around my age, is it normal, not normal? Any advice?

    Thanks again guys, have a great day!
     
  2. I'm happy that you managed to control your urges a bit better.
     
  3. Wolf7

    Wolf7 Fapstronaut

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    Thanks William, I hope you're doing better on your journey as well
     
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  4. Wolf7

    Wolf7 Fapstronaut

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    Perhaps, but I don't want to get too old and still feel that way.
     
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  5. Aquiantedwithsorrow

    Aquiantedwithsorrow Fapstronaut

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    Have you considered continuing Nofap and then looking for a wife, getting married, raising a family and becoming a Father? rather than just a girlfriend or having meaningless flings?

    I think as you grow you'll see there is nothing unnatural about seeing the beauty of a young woman. But it's overstepping the mark performing sexual acts with someone before they have matured or breaking your country's laws.
     
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  6. fremdkoerper

    fremdkoerper Fapstronaut

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    Don't worry about that now. As you get older, also your taste in women will "grow older". Especially on that path to "normal" sexual behaviour you are on right now. For me personally my taste in women changed significantly in my end-20s, it's ageing with me and today I really can't imagine dating a 20 year old. And that not mainly because of the physical part but because on a date you talk to the woman and for 99% of them being 10 years or more younger than me they are intellectually just so far away from myself that I'm not interested in them anymore no matter how sexy they seemed before. You are almost a teenager yourself and as you get older I'm certain you will experience the same. So don't worry about it!
     

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