Poll: Dominate or be dominated?

I didn't give my vote, because I don't think I can answer that right now.

A few months into a decent reboot and think it will be some time before I can answer things like this for sure.

But I can say this:

I recently engaged in some femdom scenario (wasn't a relapse for me because it wasn't sexual at all). However, I didn't get any excitement out of it. Just a waste of time and money. So there's that...

However, I do still think it would be fun to have mild power play scenarios with a girl in a relationship. I think this plays into the fun teasing style of foreplay which always appealed to me.

I won't say for sure until I'm both rebooted and have a few healthy experiences though!

 

Are you looking to kickstart it or wait it out?

I'm pretty sure I read somewhere on YBOP site that we can lose our libido during reboots and it literally takes a healthy sexual encounter, or at least some kissing and touching, to bring it back.

 

Neither, isn't it possible to act mutually?

 

Am jus gonna wait until Dec and then put myself out there. And try to kickstart my libido.
Ya I know, its called the rewiring phase to normal sexual stimuli and arousal.

 

Dominant/submissive is a porn paradigm. Most healthy sexual relationships do not revolve around this.